My husband and I have decided to seek a third. We have been together for 7 years and married for half of that. We are wonderful together and we love each other more daily it seems, BUT we are both Tops. We have been completely monogamous for these 7 years. Sex has always been "good" lots of oral which can be hot. So we will be seeking a 3rd for a committed relationship, to share in our lives, and happiness. Also of course to bottom. Im 53, husband is 29. Will be looking for someone younger than him. Have discovered that is is all exhausting. Everyone wants hookups, but of course the rest isnt what ppl want. We will be patient.