Married couple from B.C

[Kink420]

Hi there!
We are a married couple from BC!
We have 2 amazing kidlets, run our own very successful company in our small town, and are trying to become more adventure oriented and spontaneous like we used to be, before covid!
We enjoy camping, kayaking, 4x4ing, fishing and dirt biking.
We haven't traveled a bunch, and have so many bucket list items that we'd both love to share with each other and hopefully another women!

I'm 27, (f) constantly dying my hair so it changes often, currently it's red, I love reading, gaming, spending time outside gardening, watching comedy movies or stand up comedy.
My husband (31) has an amazing body, sense of adventure and humor. He loves dirtbiking, fishing, outdoors and anything that will get his blood pumping.

We're spending this summer expanding our horizons in all aspects of our life. From personal to buisness. Expansion is growth!

Cheers!

 

[TXretired]

Howdy and welcome. This is a great group. Jump in and participate.

 

[JaneQSmythe]

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Hello, attractive couple!

Welcome to polyamory.com - I hope you find a lot of useful info here.

Since no one else (except TX - Hi!!!) has been by to comment, I should probably let you know that what it appears you are looking for (a single bisexual woman to be in a relationship with both of you at the same time - aka. a HBB = Hot Bi-Babe) is considered a Unicorn (i.e. a mythical creature that doesn't exist) and therefore you may be labelled as "Unicorn-Hunters". This doesn't mean that what you are seeking is a bad thing, just that it is the form of poly that most people new to the idea tend to seek, and the least likely to end well for anyone.

At some point, someone (it might as well be me) is going to point you to this article:
So, Someone Called You a Unicorn Hunter

Many of us have been there, got the T-shirt, learned our lesson - and then went on to have other healthy poly relationships.

TLR - Dating the same person at the same time does NOT minimize jealousy. Date separately. Bi-women will have more success in this than straight men (Sorry!).

JaneQ

 

[Kink420]

copy and paste: (Yes, I have posted this before!)

Hello, attractive couple!

Welcome to polyamory.com - I hope you find a lot of useful info here.

Since no one else (except TX - Hi!!!) has been by to comment, I should probably let you know that what it appears you are looking for (a single bisexual woman to be in a relationship with both of you at the same time - aka. a HBB = Hot Bi-Babe) is considered a Unicorn (i.e. a mythical creature that doesn't exist) and therefore you may be labelled as "Unicorn-Hunters". This doesn't mean that what you are seeking is a bad thing, just that it is the form of poly that most people new to the idea tend to seek, and the least likely to end well for anyone.

At some point, someone (it might as well be me) is going to point you to this article:
So, Someone Called You a Unicorn Hunter

Many of us have been there, got the T-shirt, learned our lesson - and then went on to have other healthy poly relationships.

TLR - Dating the same person at the same time does NOT minimize jealousy. Date separately. Bi-women will have more success in this than straight men (Sorry!).

JaneQ
(PS. If you were in my area and 10 years older, I would volunteer to be your unicorn just so you could practice with your training wheels on someone who won't be devastated when it doesn't work out!)

Hi Jane,
Thank you for the warm welcome

We have actually had experience in this before, and has never ended badly for us. However dating seperatly has, on both ends and not ever on a jealousy factor on our end.
I'm more than content with my husband and have More of an interest for women, their stories, their beings, and what made them who they are, if that makes sense.
I've dated women in the past who were very taken aback that I had a husband at home, and I have given up on that path for myself. Not sure if it's because I was married, or the fact my husband didn't want to join at the time and we were dating seperatly, regardless I've given up on dating women seperatly.
Many bi women we have been with, have been with us for some time before either moving, getting work elsewhere, or the most recent, us moving.
I understand the term Unicorn hunters, however we don't actually hunt lol, whatever happens in life happens, we just put ourselves out there and leave it at that. We really just want someone to love and spoil, and made to feel like their special to the both of us, less about sex, more about connections.
Cheers

 

[Evie]

Oh excellent, experienced unicorn ranchers! Welcome to the board and I hope you can educate and encourage others looking to do the same

 

[Kink420]

Oh excellent, experienced unicorn ranchers! Welcome to the board and I hope you can educate and encourage others looking to do the same

Evie, thank you!
Many years into this, and Unicorn Ranchers is actually a term I have never heard before! After reading the article you linked, that is exactly who and what we are! Thank you for educating me a little bit on OUR proper term!! we have been with the same women for some time until we recently moved, so now that we are back on sites and all these apps I'm finding hunters is alot of what is out there, and I definitely get a different vibe off of them. Knowing that someone can see were ranchers from a simple blerb I posted, lightens my heart a bit and makes me hopeful that we don't come off as hunters to those around us.
Thank you!!

 

[Evie]

I'm not entirely sure how widely unicorn ranchers is used, I'm pretty sure it was coined by the writer at poly land and isn't necessarily universally used.

TBH, your first post does follow the hunters format, but your second became clear you weren't noobs.

Maybe a read around the links at poly land will give you ideas as to how to word future intros

 

[Kink420]

I'm not entirely sure how widely unicorn ranchers is used, I'm pretty sure it was coined by the writer at poly land and isn't necessarily universally used.

TBH, your first post does follow the hunters format, but your second became clear you weren't noobs.

Maybe a read around the links at poly land will give you ideas as to how to word future intros

That makes more sense as to why I haven't heard it!
Yes with the rules, I didn't want our post moved or deleted, so I wanted to be more vague on what we were looking for, and more focused on who we are
I will definitely read around the links, thank you for the advice & guidance!!

 

[ref2018]

Welcome to the forum Kink420. Know in advance that this forum isn't really a dating site, more of a discussion/advice site. But people on here have met in real life sometimes and some of us even ended up working together because of this site!

Just jump in and join the existing discussions, or start one of your own. Check out the Life Stories and Blogs section for some boring/happy/sad/everyday-type stories. Any questions, just holler and someone will try to help you out.

Have a good one!

 

[kdt26417]

Greetings Kink420,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

I definitely don't think you're a unicorn hunter, you're just someone who happens to be interested in having another female join you. And you will treat her well, if you were hunters you would not treat her so well. That discussion aside, I just want to welcome you, and say that I'm glad you joined our site. Namaste!

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"

Notes:

There's a *lot* of good info in Golden Nuggets. Have a look!

Please read through the guidelines if you haven't already.

Note: You needn't read every reply to your posts, especially if someone posts in a disagreeable way. Given the size and scope of the site it's hard not to run into the occasional disagreeable person. Please contact the mods if you do (or if you see any spam), and you can block the person if you want.

If you have any questions about the board itself, please private-message a mod and they'll do their best to help.

Welcome aboard!

 

[NickPatel]

Hi there!
We are a married couple from BC!
We have 2 amazing kidlets, run our own very successful company in our small town, and are trying to become more adventure oriented and spontaneous like we used to be, before covid!
We enjoy camping, kayaking, 4x4ing, fishing and dirt biking.
We haven't traveled a bunch, and have so many bucket list items that we'd both love to share with each other and hopefully another women!

I'm 27, (f) constantly dying my hair so it changes often, currently it's red, I love reading, gaming, spending time outside gardening, watching comedy movies or stand up comedy.
My husband (31) has an amazing body, sense of adventure and humor. He loves dirtbiking, fishing, outdoors and anything that will get his blood pumping.

We're spending this summer expanding our horizons in all aspects of our life. From personal to buisness. Expansion is growth!

Cheers!

Hi,.howdy. glad to know fellow canadian, I am in Hamilton, Ontario,.single, looking