Newbie Alert: Meet the Kinkslayer and Unleash Your Inner Polyamorous Kinkster!

[Kinkslayer]

Greetings, greetings, my esteemed comrades in the world of polyamory and kink! As a fresh addition to this spectacular online hub, I feel compelled to introduce myself and my trusty cyber abode, Kinkslayer.com.

Now, I can already sense your skepticism. "Kinkslayer? Is this person on a crusade to eradicate all kinky pleasures?" But fret not, my cherished friends, Kinkslayer is actually an enlightenment oasis that celebrates and educates on all things polyamorous and kinky.

Let's face it, the path of the polyamorous and kinky can sometimes resemble fitting a square peg into a round hole. That's where Kinkslayer steps in with its mighty hammer of knowledge, helping you carve out your own way to ecstasy and satisfaction.

But enough about me, let's focus on you. As fellow adventurers on this exhilarating journey, I'd love to know more about you all. Here are some juicy conundrums to reflect on:

What ignited your curiosity to explore the world of polyamory and non-monogamy? Did a book seduce you, a friend influence you, or was it your inner voice pushing you towards discovery?

What's the juiciest aspect of being polyamorous? Is it the joy of discovering various relationships or the boundless depths of connections you can craft with multiple partners?

Have you faced any heart-wrenching challenges or treacherous obstacles on your polyamorous expedition? How did you prevail and emerge even more resilient and badass?

And finally, let's have some risqué fun: what's the most outlandish, thrilling, and consent-approved kinky experience you've ever had? Let's share some laughs and perhaps learn some spicy new moves!

So, my fearless companions, let's embark on a lusty and wild odyssey of exploration, self-discovery, and loads of steamy, kinky shenanigans. And if you ever lose your way, Kinkslayer.com is always here to light up your path and guide you through the labyrinth of carnal delights.

Have questions or insights on the intricacies of multiple relationships? Need some guidance on navigating the path of love and intimacy with multiple partners? Look no further, my dear compadres! Drop me a message here, or an email at: [email protected] and let's journey together through the ups and downs of polyamorous exploration!

 

[kdt26417]

Greetings Kinkslayer,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

Haha, love your thread title. I hope I can unleash my inner polyamorous kinkster!

I got started in poly by falling in love with a married woman. She did not want to leave her husband, but she also wanted me in her life. What could be the solution? She dived into the world of googling and voilà! polyamory.

The juiciest aspect of polyamory is being a rebel. We are not out to the world (just to this forum), but it is satisfying to know that we are pioneers in this wave of the future.

We (me, the woman, and her husband) have been together as a V for over 17 years. We had a few rough years in the beginning, we had to weather the storm, and learn how to arrive at a comfortable spot with each other.

I tried some ice play with the woman back in those early days. I didn't like it. Hell, I'm as vanilla as they come, what can I say.

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"

Notes:

There's a *lot* of good info in Golden Nuggets. Have a look!

Please read through the guidelines if you haven't already.

Note: You needn't read every reply to your posts, especially if someone posts in a disagreeable way. Given the size and scope of the site it's hard not to run into the occasional disagreeable person. Please contact the mods if you do (or if you see any spam), and you can block the person if you want.

If you have any questions about the board itself, please private-message a mod and they'll do their best to help.

Welcome aboard!

 

[Kinkslayer]

Greetings Kinkslayer,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

Haha, love your thread title. I hope I can unleash my inner polyamorous kinkster!

I got started in poly by falling in love with a married woman. She did not want to leave her husband, but she also wanted me in her life. What could be the solution? She dived into the world of googling and voilà! polyamory.

The juiciest aspect of polyamory is being a rebel. We are not out to the world (just to this forum), but it is satisfying to know that we are pioneers in this wave of the future.

We (me, the woman, and her husband) have been together as a V for over 17 years. We had a few rough years in the beginning, we had to weather the storm, and learn how to arrive at a comfortable spot with each other.

I tried some ice play with the woman back in those early days. I didn't like it. Hell, I'm as vanilla as they come, what can I say.

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"

Notes:

There's a *lot* of good info in Golden Nuggets. Have a look!

Please read through the guidelines if you haven't already.

Note: You needn't read every reply to your posts, especially if someone posts in a disagreeable way. Given the size and scope of the site it's hard not to run into the occasional disagreeable person. Please contact the mods if you do (or if you see any spam), and you can block the person if you want.

If you have any questions about the board itself, please private-message a mod and they'll do their best to help.

Welcome aboard!

Thank you so much for the warm welcome to the forum! I'm thrilled to hear that my thread title sparked your interest, and I'm excited to help you unleash your inner polyamorous kinkster (with consent, of course).

I love your story of how you got started in polyamory - sometimes love really does find a way, doesn't it? And I couldn't agree more about the rebellious aspect of exploring multiple relationships. It's like being part of a secret club, but without all the hazing and silly handshakes.

Congratulations on 17 years as a V - that's truly impressive! It's not always easy to find a comfortable spot with multiple partners, but it sounds like you all weathered the storm and found your groove.

As for your ice play experience... well, not everyone is into every kink, and that's perfectly okay. Vanilla is a perfectly delicious flavor in its own right, after all.

Thanks again for the warm welcome, Kevin. I look forward to getting to know you and the rest of the polyamorous peers in this forum.

 

[kdt26417]

Cool beans. I look forward to interacting with you on the various threads and boards!

 

[Evie]

Have questions or insights on the intricacies of multiple relationships? Need some guidance on navigating the path of love and intimacy with multiple partners? Look no further, my dear compadres! Drop me a message here, or an email at: [email protected] and let's journey together through the ups and downs of polyamorous exploration!

Or...you could simply participate on our forum. Here, we have multiple experienced voices contributing to a variety of discussions. #nocowboys

 

[Kinkslayer]

Or...you could simply participate on our forum. Here, we have multiple experienced voices contributing to a variety of discussions. #nocowboys

Oh, don't mind me. I'm just a new kid on the block juggling a gazillion things at once. But fear not! Despite my limited time, I'm committed to staying as engaged as possible with all of the wonderful members of this community.

Speaking of engagement, I totally get that not everyone is keen on sharing their personal business in a public forum. That's why I'm happy to offer a discreet and secure space for anyone who needs to vent, ask questions, or just chat.

At the end of the day, that's what community is all about, right? It's a versatile tool kit that can be used for everything from growing your brand to finding your soulmate (well, maybe not that extreme, but you get the idea). So let's keep this space open and welcoming for everyone. After all, nobody likes a clique-y gatekeeper, am I right?

That's actually why I started my brand in the first place - to create a space for people like me who may have felt excluded or judged by gatekeepers with narrow-minded views. I believe that everyone deserves a place to be accepted for who they are, and I'm proud to be a part of a community that values that too.

My brand isn't solely focused on ethical non-monogamy. Instead, it combines support and community for all types of alternative lifestyles. That being said, I do believe my content provides a valuable space to learn about building good foundations in ethical non-monogamous relationships across the spectrum, among other things.

As a member of this community, I'm committed to sharing my resources and knowledge with others who may find them useful. After all, resources are an essential part of any community and encourage growth and perspective.

 

[Evie]

After all, nobody likes a clique-y gatekeeper, am I right?

Not sure how "or you could simply participate on our forum" is clique-y gatekeeping.

Take a moment to have a look around. See that there are many voices who contribute to the discussions and it tends to go without saying that the PM function is available from any member to any member.

Since we are polyamory.com, most of our threads are related to polyamory and frequently ENM in general, but we have discussions on kink (many of us are Fetlife members, I see you have two accounts there) and relationship anarchy and various other topics. However, we do have the right to moderate the content here. Self-promotion, especially to monetized websites, tend to get reported, as your posts have been. As such, I made suggestions both in PM and here about how to better use this community such as the use of the signature function for listing your website, which I see you have adopted.

FWIW, I found a soulmate in a Fetlife community, so extreme or not, it does happen

As for growing your brand, you might find that our demographic isn't necessarily the same as your target market. Again, take a moment to look around and read the room.

 

[SEASONEDpolyAgain]

Yes I have to say that I've found it kind of patronizing that you've strolled in here telling us to go elsewhere to talk about the things some have spoken about in here for nigh on a decade. And all to line your pockets.

We have no idea if you even know anything about relationships, polyamory, kink, consent or decency. Contribute to the forums and let's see what you say and then we will decide if your website is worth a click.

 

[Magdlyn]

Starting your participation on an established discussion board by calling a moderator a clique-y gatekeeper is not a great look, dude.