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Hi and welcome to polyamory.com.
If you're looking for sexual encounters, perhaps go find your local kink community on Fetlife. If you want to learn about building two relationships with two different men a the same time, we have a lot of resources about being a good hinge partner in multiple relationships.
If you're looking for sexual encounters, perhaps go find your local kink community on Fetlife. If you want to learn about building two relationships with two different men a the same time, we have a lot of resources about being a good hinge partner in multiple relationships.
Greetings Laylay,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.
I am in an MFM V, so I know one woman with two men is possible, and can work. You just have to be patient as you look/wait for the two guys that are right for you. In the meantime, invest some time exploring our various threads and boards here, and be ready to post any questions as they arise for you. You are at the beginning of an exciting journey; I hope all goes well for you exactly as you had hoped!
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"
Notes:
There's a *lot* of good info in Golden Nuggets. Have a look!
Please read through the guidelines if you haven't already.
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If you have any questions about the board itself, please private-message a mod and they'll do their best to help.
Welcome aboard!
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.
I am in an MFM V, so I know one woman with two men is possible, and can work. You just have to be patient as you look/wait for the two guys that are right for you. In the meantime, invest some time exploring our various threads and boards here, and be ready to post any questions as they arise for you. You are at the beginning of an exciting journey; I hope all goes well for you exactly as you had hoped!
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"
Notes:
There's a *lot* of good info in Golden Nuggets. Have a look!
Please read through the guidelines if you haven't already.
Note: You needn't read every reply to your posts, especially if someone posts in a disagreeable way. Given the size and scope of the site it's hard not to run into the occasional disagreeable person. Please contact the mods if you do (or if you see any spam), and you can block the person if you want.
If you have any questions about the board itself, please private-message a mod and they'll do their best to help.
Welcome aboard!
You ask for "no negativity." In our Guidelines, it says:
- Constructive criticism and polite disagreement are welcome.
- Don't expect a new poster to know the ins and outs of poly jargon, or to be well-versed in poly theory; be gentle with them. Making judgments about other users, especially about the validity of their poly, is strongly discouraged.
- If you are new, be aware that what you're going through has probably happened previously to someone else and may well have been discussed before in great detail. Accept the advice and criticism you receive in the spirit in which it's intended.
As for dating two men, I don't know if you're male or female (or some other gender) yourself. But be clear, if you're polyamorous, that we believe in the notion of romantic love between one person and their multiple partners. Polyamory does not equal group sex, however. You may date each partner independently, as in the "V" shaped relationship Kevin mentions. Triads, where all three people are romantically/sexually involved, are much rarer and harder to maintain.
In a V, Partner A dates Partner B, and Partner A dates Partner C, but C and B do not date each other. This is how polyamory usually goes.