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I'm new on the forum ! (20 NB)
My partner who I have been with for almost 3 years (in long distance relationship) just slept for the first time with a very good friend of her. They have began kind of a casual relationship where they see each other regularly !
I know this friend of her, I was hanging out with her before in the bunch of friends of my partner !
Now that there was this change in the relationship between my partner and the friend she sleeps with, I am wondering how meeting again with her friend would feel and how to act around her!! It made me fairly insecure the beginning of this relationship and I am a little afraid that interacting again with this friend of my partner would be akward or that I would compare myself to her cause I think she's really cool.
Another thing is my partner and I usually show a lot of affection for each other in the presence of her friends.
My partner is gonna live in a new city with this friend of her for a month, and when I'll visit her, we kind of planned to meet up all the three. I am wondering how to act.
I guess I'm mostly confused on how affectionate to be with my partner, as I don't want to seem possessive or make her friend feel uncomfortable. I am also looking for tips on how to deal with the insecurity that might pop up.
Does anyone has experience with meeting some friends of your partners you knew before, who now switched to being metamours ?
Or do you have some advice ?
Thank you in advance!
I'm new on the forum ! (20 NB)
My partner who I have been with for almost 3 years (in long distance relationship) just slept for the first time with a very good friend of her. They have began kind of a casual relationship where they see each other regularly !
I know this friend of her, I was hanging out with her before in the bunch of friends of my partner !
Now that there was this change in the relationship between my partner and the friend she sleeps with, I am wondering how meeting again with her friend would feel and how to act around her!! It made me fairly insecure the beginning of this relationship and I am a little afraid that interacting again with this friend of my partner would be akward or that I would compare myself to her cause I think she's really cool.
Another thing is my partner and I usually show a lot of affection for each other in the presence of her friends.
My partner is gonna live in a new city with this friend of her for a month, and when I'll visit her, we kind of planned to meet up all the three. I am wondering how to act.
I guess I'm mostly confused on how affectionate to be with my partner, as I don't want to seem possessive or make her friend feel uncomfortable. I am also looking for tips on how to deal with the insecurity that might pop up.
Does anyone has experience with meeting some friends of your partners you knew before, who now switched to being metamours ?
Or do you have some advice ?
Thank you in advance!