BDSM discussion

Cool, LR! I don't get time to read anything online but Facebook and here, usually, but feel free to send me anything you think might be of interest. I know a lot of people living BDSM lifestyles here in my town and go by what I know of my own experience of that in the last 15 years. Not much about 24/7 Ds, but as I'm not that interested in it for myself I haven't considered it.
 
redpepper said:
I am finding the more I enter and am becoming interested in the D/s world, that female doms are a triggering source for some dom males. Has anyone experienced this? I hope MsStacey has something to say.

Feeling a tad marginalized, especially after those lovely words that LR added. They made me feel as if I don't belong. I realize that they wrote this for their own life and didn't mean to put it on me, but I am different in the D/s realm specifically because I am female, I would not have written the dom part the way it is written above. Nothing to do with the two of you, LR and Maca.
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I am sorry I have been away for awhile, you know, just got to do STUFF!

I am not sure what I can add to this discussion other than on my 13th year of marriage to my Life Partner we did a collaring ceremony. I collared my life partner. We did this with family and friends in attendance that were very close to us. They were not even in the BDSM, Ds or FemDOM lifestyle. It was a very intense ceremony that is still very strong today. Our Families, Lifestyle friends and vanilla friends know of our relationship and how it works. They have never looked at us differently. I think that is because we do not run down the street proclaiming we are in a FemDOM relationship, it is just the way we live life.

The relationships that (I consider POLY) I am in engaged in are based on my relationship and interests with that person. Some relationships are short, some are longer, some leave and some return to share some time of my life. (I have one of those returning ones that I am experiencing right now.) I enjoy each one.

Talk you guys later.
 
Hey all,

I'm sorry been gone so much lately. Summers are short up here so we have to make the most of them.

As LR stated, I did not write those (very touching) words. I have to say though, that they really hit some of my heartstrings.:)

Ari, yeah, I have written the collaring ceremony. I'm not going to share it ( publicly) until after the ceremony, though. If you are interested I can PM you some of the "vows."

LR has begun working on her dress for the ceremony. I'm still waiting on our tax return so that I can buy the materials for the collar I'm making for her.

We have started with around 15 rules so far. Unfortunately, some of the rules will have to be on hold until we are reunited after the move to the states. 24/7 is "work." There isn't a "break," not that I desire one. ;) But the thing with 24/7 is that you have to know how to prioritize everything going on in your life, and the life of your sub/Dom. For us, it's not a power trip, it's "our life."

Right now, with all that is going on, with the move of the kids and LR, I have decided to slow down on the "correcting" and adding of rules or orchestrating of "scenes or actions." I will tweak some of the rules so that they will function with us being separated.

We still plan on visiting our Canadian friends in August. The ceremony is still planned for that timeframe. See you all then. :cool:

Peace and love,
Maca
 
redpepper said:
all that the bruises Derby has on her legs from playing derby are actually from when I constrained her and ground my heels into her legs. She shows off those bruises like anyone who enjoys getting a good beating. The only difference is in the how.
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Yep, I'm proud of my bruises. And I just read this thread for the first time today. My question is. how do you possibly know what you might be into? There is so much terminology and stuff going on in this thread that I find it quite overwhelming. I'm open to learning though.

-Derby
 
MonoVCPHG said:
Yes I do, but heavy flogs are more to my liking. I like the dull thumping.
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It's all Greek to me! "Dull thumping" makes me think of the bass track coming from the car behind you at a red light! Crap, I'm vanilla. :rolleyes:
 
Derbylicious said:
It's all Greek to me! Dull thumping makes me think of the bass track coming from the car behind you at a red light! Crap, I'm vanilla.
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Nothing wrong with that! Perhaps you'll don your nurse's outfit and hit the next event with us? Redpepper would love that, I bet, as long as you don't mind watching her teach me a lesson. I have been a very bad boy lately. :eek:
 
As long as you don't mind me tagging along. (I have been to such events before, strictly as an observer.)
 
Derbylicious said:
As long as you don't mind me tagging along. (I have been to such events before, strictly as an observer.)
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I certainly would not mind. Everybody else in our community has seen my pale little butt taking a beating, and you are more than a friend, don't forget. :)

Of course, you and Redpepper would have to talk and be comfortable too. If I speak for her she'll spank me. Err... wait. Isn't that the goal? ;)
 
TMI! TMI! Public forum, people. TMI! :) Put your towels back on. Put the floggers away and...

Aww shucks, who am I kidding? :) I can't even fake not being a little voyeuristic.

*gets out popcorn*
 
I don't think there is anything Redpepper couldn't ruffle with her flog. You should hear the sounds it makes! She draws a lot of attention at events with her skill and intensity. So damn sexy!
 
MonoVCPHG said:
I don't think there is anything Redpepper couldn't ruffle with her flog. You should hear the sounds it makes! She draws a lot of attention at events with her skill and intensity. So damn sexy!
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While that sounds awesome, I am not a sub. ;) My feathers don't ruffle unless I tell them to, if you get my meaning, I tend to like ruffling other's feathers with my riding crop. I like a good snap crackle pop sound in my domination.

Now, I love watching a dom use her tools, for that matter, even men. Everyone has different techniques and tools, so I would be up for a show.
 
Kittens, I am a switch. I get off on domestic service to my gf. I love to make her coffee and serve it to her. Declutter her house, do her laundry, clean her small rodents' cages, sweep floors, light incense, do dishes (I actually hate doing dishes, but when it's for her... it's different.) Lotion her feet and legs. Bathe her and shave her pubes.

Also I love when she gets in a mood and "rapes" me late at night, fists me, fucks me hard and dominantly, and beats my willing ass to a pulp. :D

On the other hand, I also love when I have a date with a boytoy and she gets off on me having been off acting the Sex Goddess with someone else. And I enjoy wrapping her in Saran Wrap, blindfolding her, and doing sensation play, ice, wax, feathers, fur, sitting on her face, gradually tearing away the Saran to expose her ass, which might have a plug in it. Exposing her nipples and sucking on them. Beating her good and hard til she whimpers and cries. Exposing her coochie and sucking and fingering it til she cums... hard. Then of course, unwrapping her and having the cuddly aftercare session...

Mmmm, I love being a switch.
 
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