Bi gf wants to open up for her to be with girls

So here is the thing.

Xena and Yvonne used to date. I know Xena had a gf before me and that they broke up because she went to school in another town. I never asked more of that but now I understand a lot more.

Yvonne is not romantically interested in guys but she is sexually. That would explain why she hasn't been dating. If I understood correctly, there aren't many options for her. She is goodlooking, well educated and a smart conservative girl. Most of the women she has met are put off by her being right wing. Me and Xena are also conservatives.

Xena is romantically and sexually interested in both guys (me) and girls (Yvonne).

I don't know. Somehow this makes sense to me. The way this played out does not but I definitely understand her actions. She wanted to show me that it would not be all bad. She also tried to let me know that their matters do not have to be my matters but I find that somewhat hard to believe.

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This has been going on for almost 2 years now. That is along time to warm someone up. I respect that.
 
MrMark said:
I respect your opinions but I would like to hear the reasoning behind this? Why would not Y be an option if they were not to date?
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She's an option, but she's not a "no strings attached" option, since you already have some dynamics going.
You expressed this:
MrMark said:
I think that it would be impossible to keep things the way I could manage, keeping her stuff to herself. This is too close, everything would be in my face and every problem she/they would be having would be also my problem. I don't want to be responsible for any other girl, not at all.
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If you are also involved with Y (pick another name :D), you get all this closeness magnified.
It's a bit playing with fire. Triads tend to cause more friction than dating separately.

Besides, please examine Y's motivations. What arrangement does Y want? Is she just sleeping with you to appease you and get your gf, or is she into dating both of you? Or perhaps she wants you more than her? Wouldn't that mean heartbreak for your gf ;)

But. If she's into both of you, your choice. Could be a lot of fun indeed.
(Personally, I'd love a triad with a best friend ;))
 
Tinwen said:
She's an option, but she's not a "no strings attached" option, since you already have some dynamics going.
You expressed this:

If you are also involved with Y (pick another name :D), you get all this closeness magnified.
It's a bit playing with fire. Triads tend to cause more friction than dating separately.

Besides, please examine Y's motivations. What arrangement does Y want? Is she just sleeping with you to appease you and get your gf, or is she into dating both of you? Or perhaps she wants you more than her? Wouldn't that mean heartbreak for your gf ;)

But. If she's into both of you, your choice. Could be a lot of fun indeed.
(Personally, I'd love a triad with a best friend ;))
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Check my post above. ;)
 
Tinwen said:
Your story is fun :D
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I think the funnest part is that I should have seen this a loong time ago. I just thought that they are teasing me.

Haha we have slept in the same bed numerous times and even then when they both have been talking about sex I have just brushed it off as a bad joke. Maybe because I haven't ever been on a threesome or maybe they were making it sound like a joke and see if I bite. I don't apparently understand anything. :D

Also off to talk more about this.
 
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So are you now talking about this specific arrangement?
Or is your gf dating, and you sleeping with others, still on the table?
 
Sounds like X & Y have been planning this whole thing for quite a while. Every detail. X knew you'd have sex with Y at the first opportunity and Y made it happen so she and X could end up dating.

You could concede them their relationship, they are both obviously desperate to be together. Doesn't mean you and X have to part ways, but it's never going to be just you and X anymore. Even if she and Y don't work out, precedent is set.

You and X could part ways and you can go find a straight, mono, truly conservative mother of your children.
 
Evie said:
Sounds like X & Y have been planning this whole thing for quite a while. Every detail. X knew you'd have sex with Y at the first opportunity and Y made it happen so she and X could end up dating.

You could concede them their relationship, they are both obviously desperate to be together. Doesn't mean you and X have to part ways, but it's never going to be just you and X anymore. Even if she and Y don't work out, precedent is set.

You and X could part ways and you can go find a straight, mono, truly conservative mother of your children.
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Nothing is set. That is a lesson you should learn.

My gf is a conservative. There is a good chance that she is the mother of my children. Or maybe I will have kids with both of them. Wouldn't that be sweet?
 
MrMark said:
Nothing is set. That is a lesson you should learn.

My gf is a conservative. There is a good chance that she is the mother of my children. Or maybe I will have kids with both of them. Wouldn't that be sweet?
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Hahahahahahahahaha, I have nothing to learn from you.

You're being played like a fiddle.

Sweet dreams.
 
Anyway, we put this thing on hold for a moment. We will talk more and hang out together, as a group of friends and we will see what comes put of this.
 
We aren't really good at holding back. Just had my first threesome ever and it was amazing. Now the girls are cuddling and I can watch some football.

This is so much fun. :)
 
MrMark said:
We aren't really good at holding back. Just had my first threesome ever and it was amazing. Now the girls are cuddling and I can watch some football.

This is so much fun. :)
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Sounds a little too good to be true...
 
Well I don't want to spoil the story, but I don't think this is real anymore:(
 
Nice made up story, dude. Seriously, go get a life. You are an embarrassment to my gender. Shit, I could have helped you write a better story except I have one little problem called integrity..
 
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