Are you going to a cool party?
The coolest thing I'm doing is entering the contest at the casino (not expecting to win but still fun to enter). Also taking the kids to the zoo trick or treat party where they set up stations throughout the zoo with mini games and stuff. We will be going to a party at the local micro brewery if we get a sitter.Are you going to a cool party?
As far as metas, it took forever for DAG to convince me that I needed his partner's phone numbers. I didn't want them because I didn't see a need to be connected to them. Only when he mentioned their use in an emergency did I get the point. Begrudgingly, I took the numbers and later regretted it. I was being sucked into their text conversations and wanted nothing to do with it. Which is why I now have a boundary about contact info.
I will open up and say this: If you ever want to vent, ask questions, or just shoot the shit, contact me. I think you've seen my blog on this site, so you can post there too.It's just to big of a coincidence that we were both typing about this at the same time, THE UNIVERSE IS WATCHING US!!
Mourning a relationship while still in another one is one of the strangest places I've ever been. So was supporting a partner through their own breakup. (Doing both at the same time is even more not something I recommend but that's another story for another time.) I'm not sure I have advice, since it sounds like your wife isn't gonna be the sort to process out loud with you. If she was, I'd have all sorts of advice about supporting while maintaining your own boundaries so it wasn't just totally TMI.
Yea I suppose it's not "out of the blue", I mean I saw it coming, I even blogged about it. But it just feels like this happened right during a high point, it felt (from my end) like things were improving and then BAM. It's like I was ready for it until it actually happened. Now I just don't know what direction the future is headed.As for the "out of the blue" thing?
Please keep us posted!
I feel for you. I absolutely hate this part of poly, the relationship run-off as I call it. But realistically, it's unavoidable.I'm just stunned. I was so excited because my costume wings arrived and I really wanted to show her and then all the excitement was crushed.