So...Deb here. Long time lurker, first time poster. I'm a married grandmother in a MFF relationship. I'm 60 years young, my husband (T) is 51, and my girlfriend (M) is 46. Yes, it seems I tend to rob the cradle. This is my 2nd marriage, my husband's first and my girlfriend has never been married. T and I have been married over 20 years and M and I have been together more than 2 years.