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Hi, my name is Zoe. I have been in a mono relationship for almost 5 years and it's amazing.

My partner (28m) and I (25f) have talked a few times about maybe bringing another girl into our relationship, but on more of a permanent level, not just a fling.

He and I go on dates, holidays, camping trips, movies all sorts of wild adventures, dirt bike riding and a lot more. We both work. He does long hours, still makes time every day for me.

I was dropping hints that I would like to add a girlfriend to our relationship and see how we go after a few dates. He opened up to the idea of it and is interested.

Kinda looking for female aged 20-35. Totally would love to explore and experience this with him. Pretty sure he's excited too.

We've tried dating sites and apps with minimal responses or just fake accounts, but no meets yet.

We're located in New South Wales, Australia. If anyone could point me in a good direction, that would be great.

I don't really know where to go from here, but not giving up. I'm happy to travel or host or even meet somewhere in between and try a few dates. It's been really difficult finding anything that has led to a date. This is a first for both of us. We are pretty open people, so any advice or tips or anything would be great. I'm happy to answer almost any questions, so feel free to ask.

Sorry for the really long introduction. Just trying to explain our situation as best as I can.
 
Greetings Zoe,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

In my experience, meeting people in person works better than dating sites and apps, however Feeld does have a pretty good reputation. OKCupid used to be good but I've heard it's not very user-friendly now. In any case, it usually takes quite a while to find someone, so you'll probably have to be patient.

Hopefully what's posted in this thread is of help.
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter" :)

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So so so many newly open couples are "looking for our third." Women looking to BE a third are so few and far between, they are called unicorns.

Do a search here on triads to learn more about the issues with being an established couple trying to "add a hot bi babe" to their dynamic, yes, even for a long-term real romantic committed relationship.

There are a couple good articles about this issue linked in the post Seasonedpoly recommended.

You both sound fun and sweet and sincere, but it's a very difficult thing you're seeking.
 
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