Bluebird
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I got my period this morning! 28 days exactly.
I am worried about my youngest daughter, more than I have been lately. My nephew and his fiancé arrived a little later than anticipated - a bit after 9 pm. She didn’t stay to see them. She was at the house for maybe an hour, but suddenly got super fidgety and said she had to leave when they were like 10 minutes away. I was like what?
I really feel like it’s the boyfriend. She was late arriving and then all of a sudden freaked and said she had to leave. I know he was at practice for a play, and I really got the impression that he got finished and she was *told* to come home. It was confusing, and it doesn’t really make sense any other way.
When I get home, I’m going to try to get her to come see me and see if she will talk about it. She has a history of controlling partners and I’m concerned. My oldest nephew and her used to be peas and carrots. There’s no way she would ditch seeing him without a really good reason.
I gave her $500 because her bank balance was like $2. I asked her if she was okay financially and she was evasive. I asked her if I gave her money what she would buy, and she was quick to say gas. When she saw how much I had transferred her, she was instantly excited and said, “I can get gas! And groceries! And I can pay bills!”
She told me she still sees PunkRock at work; he’s on the shift after her so he will wave at her. She says he doesn’t talk to her or treat her like his daughter any longer - he hasn’t ever invited her over to his house or anything. I asked her if she were okay with that, as he was her dad for almost a decade, and she sort of half shrugged and said it doesn’t matter how she feels, because he doesn’t care about her. This made me sad, but there’s nothing there for me to do.
She also said that HippieChick got fired and that she was kind of glad about it because everyone at work disliked her, for the most part, because she really wasn’t a nice person, and she didn’t do any work. Lol Anyway, my daughter said her boyfriend (who also works there) knows a lot about that situation, but he is in a position where he doesn’t talk about personnel issues, so he didn’t tell her any details, though she wishes she knew more. This was surprising to me, because I would have guessed PunkRock to lose his job first due to his drinking, but oh well. It’s an interesting fact, but not something that has anything to do with me.
Today is going to be busy - Pride is today! I have a new rainbow dress to wear, and I bought three rainbow polka dot umbrellas yesterday because it’s supposed to be raining today. I’m disappointed about that, but we are still going! Afterwards we are headed to Ocean City. Both DarkKnight and MisterMoonbeam are staying home - it’s me, BugGirl and my bestie, along with my nephew & his fiancé, who are all staying at a hotel overnight.
I am worried about my youngest daughter, more than I have been lately. My nephew and his fiancé arrived a little later than anticipated - a bit after 9 pm. She didn’t stay to see them. She was at the house for maybe an hour, but suddenly got super fidgety and said she had to leave when they were like 10 minutes away. I was like what?
I really feel like it’s the boyfriend. She was late arriving and then all of a sudden freaked and said she had to leave. I know he was at practice for a play, and I really got the impression that he got finished and she was *told* to come home. It was confusing, and it doesn’t really make sense any other way.
When I get home, I’m going to try to get her to come see me and see if she will talk about it. She has a history of controlling partners and I’m concerned. My oldest nephew and her used to be peas and carrots. There’s no way she would ditch seeing him without a really good reason.
I gave her $500 because her bank balance was like $2. I asked her if she was okay financially and she was evasive. I asked her if I gave her money what she would buy, and she was quick to say gas. When she saw how much I had transferred her, she was instantly excited and said, “I can get gas! And groceries! And I can pay bills!”
She told me she still sees PunkRock at work; he’s on the shift after her so he will wave at her. She says he doesn’t talk to her or treat her like his daughter any longer - he hasn’t ever invited her over to his house or anything. I asked her if she were okay with that, as he was her dad for almost a decade, and she sort of half shrugged and said it doesn’t matter how she feels, because he doesn’t care about her. This made me sad, but there’s nothing there for me to do.
She also said that HippieChick got fired and that she was kind of glad about it because everyone at work disliked her, for the most part, because she really wasn’t a nice person, and she didn’t do any work. Lol Anyway, my daughter said her boyfriend (who also works there) knows a lot about that situation, but he is in a position where he doesn’t talk about personnel issues, so he didn’t tell her any details, though she wishes she knew more. This was surprising to me, because I would have guessed PunkRock to lose his job first due to his drinking, but oh well. It’s an interesting fact, but not something that has anything to do with me.
Today is going to be busy - Pride is today! I have a new rainbow dress to wear, and I bought three rainbow polka dot umbrellas yesterday because it’s supposed to be raining today. I’m disappointed about that, but we are still going! Afterwards we are headed to Ocean City. Both DarkKnight and MisterMoonbeam are staying home - it’s me, BugGirl and my bestie, along with my nephew & his fiancé, who are all staying at a hotel overnight.