Fun and Frolic With Long-Term Love

Not sure where you got that I was less motivated? I literally said I very much wanted to contribute financially.
I guess I may have been projecting a bit. When I was married, eventually my ex-h advanced in his career to become a highly-sought after skilled electrical engineer working in cutting-edge high-tech companies, either as an employee or a contractor. Before we had kids, I worked full time. Once I turned 29, we started our family. (A few years before that, we started putting all my pay in savings, and scrimping to live on his income alone, which wasn't very high yet.) Since I was responsible for parenting/homeschooling our three kids (hubs was often gone for 12 hours/day between work, crunch times and commuting), it made sense for me to be a full time SAHM when they were young enough to need sitters if I wasn't there. I tried to work part time at one point, but then I spent so much money on sitters, and, being tired after work, buying more expensive convenience food instead of cooking from scratch, it pretty much negated my income. (Florists aren't highly paid.) And it depleted my energy more than I liked. I needed that energy to school the kids when I was home, clean our house (a house that is a school for three kids and a menagerie of pets gets really messy), and be a halfway-decent wife.

Instead of earning an income, I saved our family A LOT of money by making the huge majority of our meals, snacks, desserts, from whole fresh foods (which kept us healthier... less missed work for the hubs); doing all our laundry; all the gardening (including growing veggies); all the taxiing of the kids (so hubs could work longer hours); spending a bit of extra time to save money by shopping in thrift stores for our clothes, linens, etc.; I breastfed the kids until they were preschool age (saving money and preventing diseases); using libraries; getting museum passes, finding low-cost or no-cost ways to go on dates, field trips, vacations; and so on. I felt justified in not working outside the home. But once the youngest was able to be more self-directed in his schooling, and everyone could be trusted to not burn the house down, I did get a part time job again.

Sorry for the novel on your blog. ;)
I’m just not sure if I want to do so by making floral headpieces! I think they’re fun, but I wouldn’t say I love it lots and wanna do it for always. Especially not if there’s a risk I wouldn't make any money at it. It is an option, but I’m not sure yet. I have a lot of things to think about. :)

Okay, that makes sense. Your headpieces really are gorgeous though. :)
 
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I put up some of our Halloween decorations in the entryway on Monday. This is about it, though we do have Skelliot in the sunroom and our mid century bar in the dining room has some real little pumpkins and gourds on it. I think there are 9 totes of decorations going back into the garage today, after I get them labeled. I’m going to be in Arizona for Halloween with MisterMoonbeam. DarkKnight is uncertain if he wants to hand out candy bars. I just figured I will save the rest for when we have spirit(s). Next year, I suppose! We did sort through all of the totes though, and 3 bins of stuff got donated.

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Here I am on Tuesday. I ended up turning the heat in the afternoon because it was chilly! I have bad circulation in my hands and feet so they’re always cold. At least now I can point to Hashimoto’s and diabetes as the reasons why!

TheEngineer came over and he helped me a little more in the basement. He brought an ultrasonic cleaner and I used it on the drawer pulls for what will be my gift-wrapping station. While I did that, he installed some 3D printed supports for the lid he put on the other day.

We talked about the 2 remaining walls I need to paint, and the large hole that exists since MisterMoonbeam ripped out the old dehumidifier. Next Monday, TheEngineer will be back to fill the space in with a piece of plywood so I can get everything painted after. Sweet! The gift-wrapping station will be finished by this Friday - I still need to paint the base white.

In the afternoon we did a model kit together of a Leonardo da Vinci catapult design. I enjoyed putting it together and he was good at sharing space! Afterward we played a 3D printed game he brought with him - Hextraction. He promises to print one for me! I really really liked it.

In the evening, DarkKnight made fajitas for dinner. I ate one - they were yummy! He had practice so I didn’t see him much. While he was out, MisterMoonbeam and I did some chores (he emptied cat litter and I did laundry) and then played an Unlock! Escape board game based on the Pandemic board game. It was really done well. I did get frustrated at one point because he was so into one of the puzzles, he didn’t share it with me and was intense about trying to solve it. When I told him a couple of times that I wanted to be included, he finally passed the card over to me and I solved it. lol

Today I have therapy in the afternoon and we’re hosting the first of four horror game nights in the evening. I pulled out several scary games to choose from. It should be fun! The spots filled up quick, and the third one is looking almost full as well! I posted all of the dates on my Facebook and asked people to message if they wanna come.

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I need to do some cleaning in the spare room and in MisterMoonbeam’s room. We’re hosting a group of 4 couchsurfers on Thursday night, so both of those spaces will be used and we plan to have some air mattresses in the game room. They’re members of an out of state jazz band! So, I need to get things ready for them.

The week is going by quickly. I got my last 5.0 shot of Mounjaro into my stomach. I need to order another box so it’s ready for next week. My glucose numbers were not the greatest in that they did stay under 180, but the lower end never really dropped below 130. That used to be my normal but most of this week I was in around 100! I’m not sure what had me riding higher than that, other than maybe that it was time for my shot.
 
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So there is no saving our vintage tile. 😢

Honestly, when we bought the house, the yellow bathroom made me so happy! However, neither of this bathroom’s exhaust fans worked, and we knew there was a moisture problem. It’s always needed new grout, but spending money on the plumbing was the biggest priority. Now this is screaming at us, and we can no longer ignore that we need to fix the shower surround.

Our handyman came over and we’ve seen how gorgeous his bathrooms are, so I absolutely trust his opinion. He’s going to try and save the tile outside of the tub surround, though the floor tile is loose and needs reset as well. He’s going to leave the yellow tub, and rip out everything else surrounding it to the ceiling. We’re uncertain as to whether there is actual waterproof board back behind the tile, so whatever is there will be replaced, and he will spray the entire cavity with a mold killer. He said we’ll have to relocate for 3-4 hours with the cats. That will be a joy!

We talked about new tile and putting in a niche, but honestly, I told him to just slap up a white plastic surround and call it a day. We just started making payments on the credit card we used on the roof repair - and though 0% interest is lovely, this is just going to go on top of that. Waterproof is what we need right now and this ain’t it.

He’s going to attempt to keep the floor tile - it carries through to the attached space that has the sinks and toilet - as well as the wall tile & wallpaper outside of the surround. It wraps around behind the door.

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We had fun at the Horror Game Night and I’m looking forward to the next one on Friday. We played Mysterium & Betrayal at House on the Hill yesterday evening. It was kinda crazy because I was out until 4:30 running errands and then our friend call and wanted to come over early. lol It was all fine.

I’m still in bed right now - I feel absolutely exhausted. I think it’s the Mounjaro shot.
 
Thursday ended up being not what I had planned. One of my Blessing Box volunteers was having her house fumigated, so I picked her up and took her to an appointment she had about her medical insurance. She’s turning 65, so stuff was changing. I ended up vibing with her social worker, and the social worker friended me on Facebook. lol Afterward, my friend and I went to lunch.

I ended up coming home later than expected, but thankfully I had swept all of the floors previously, and MisterMoonbeam stripped his bed and had his sheets & comforter in the washer/dryer. DarkKnight had the robot vacuum going, but he soon left for theater practice. (He’s in a production of Heathers next year.) We happened to be out of Swiffer fluid, so MisterMoonbeam and I went to dinner (Buffalo Wild Wings) and then to the store to snag some.

Thank goodness we did, because we came home and the robot had stopped partway through cleaning due to low battery! So I finished manually washing the floors, and finished moving things around to be ready for our overnight guests.

Our couchsurfers arrived at 11:00 pm and they were some really nice dudes. We talked for maybe a half hour and then went to bed.

This morning they left at like 10:30 am but one of them left a coat, which I found soon enough, so they turned around to pick it up. This was a group of four young men who are in a jazz/funk band. Right now they’re traveling down the coast, playing events and in bars. Their gig tonight is 5 hours away!

It was a nice experience to have them over. I used to be on the Couchsurfing website pre-pandemic and we had many repeat crashers, but we completely stopped making our house available due to the pandemic. These were the first strangers we have hosted since moving.

I need to shower, but I am planning on painting the gift-wrap cabinet base after lunch, so I’m waiting at the moment. I think MisterMoonbeam and I are going to go to the Farm store when he’s out of his meeting at 1 pm - we are out of whole corn, birdseed and sunflower seeds. We’ll do that and then eat, and then I will come back and paint!

Until then, I have been working on both cleaning (more laundry) and floral stuff. I made MisterMoonbeam’s boutonnière for tomorrow, and now I’m making a smaller floral crown. I meant to time myself to see how long it took, but I’ve been interrupted half a dozen times. Sigh.

I had another conversation about next year’s work plans, with MisterMoonbeam last night. He said his boss is talking about promoting him yet another level, making him an M3. Which, if I understand it correctly, will make him a 3rd level manager with at least one additional department underneath him. Right now he manages two auditing teams - one in Dulles and one in the Phoenix area. Anyway, this would *probably* boost him at least another $15,000 a year, but most likely more. I guess $15,000 more is the start level for M3s and he wouldn’t start at the very bottom of the pay scale tier? Idk.

Anyway, his other option would be to bow out of management and become a specialist, which would be at least a $30,000 raise.

If either of these happen next Spring, I most definitely would not have to work at all for a wage. He was quite matter-of-fact about that. He’d be making right under $200,000 a year and then our household also has DarkKnight’s salary to pull from.

Of course I am both excited at this but also a little frightened. My plan this whole year was to NOT make any risky choices in 2025, but with that sort of increase, I could potentially revisit the idea of opening the cat cafe I have wanted for so long. This makes me anxious, as I had grieved that dream and put it to bed, because I have been thinking I need a job to pay down our debt and to start socking away more cash for retirement. His raise would give us an immediate cushion so I could make an entrepreneurial attempt without as much risk if I fail.

The entry cost for the cat cafe is a lot. Much more than selling floral crowns, that’s for damn sure! It’s been a dream for so long! Wow. I really don’t know. I’m glad I have another therapy appointment next week to unpack this.

I was also taken aback at how nonchalant MisterMoonbeam was about me not having to work. I told him I’ve always been doing something - I can’t sit still! Last night in front of the band, he joked that I could stay home and just manage the household full time, and I said if he’s making so much more, I would take over the cat litter cleaning. Seriously though, I would not be happy doing that. Having the extra income would definitely open up more opportunities for me to explore though.
 
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Today went sideways for me again. I did no painting or long term planning. Didn’t go to the Farm Store either.

I did go to lunch with MisterMoonbeam at the Dutch Market. We came home and TheEngineer told me he was having issues 3D printing a dragon he was trying to make to top a wizard staff? He’s going to a Halloween Party tomorrow. Anyway, he ended up coming over as I let him borrow the D20 walking stick MisterMoonbeam owns as well as a green cloak that he may or may not end up using.

He was telling me about this costume party at Dragon Distillery and I told him definitely eat beforehand as the food there sucks. lol Well I checked tonight and it’s actually hosted by them, but at the Fairgrounds. They have food trucks coming!

I am interested in going myself but I feel like I don’t want to intrude on his space. I don’t care enough to bring it up.

Anyway when he came over, he brought his son, who just turned 2. I understand he was coming over last minute and didn’t have a sitter, but it made me feel a little uncomfortable. I think we are at the one year mark in November? So maybe it isn’t too soon to meet his children, but it felt weird.

I finished with the lights on my crown for tomorrow’s Ren Faire:


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I think it’s pretty fabulous. It looks ginormous, but it isn’t heavy at all.

I decided to try and make a second small headpiece as fast as I could, to time myself. I think it took about an hour but I was interrupted several times. All of the pieces I used for it were leftover stems.

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I was trying to think of how much this would sell for, and I think it’s too much. An hour of my time at $20 and then maybe $5 for materials, tops? It’s small so I was thinking more like $15 which makes it not a smart sell for me unless I can crank these out faster. Though if I saw them for sale at a booth for $15, it would seem like a steal and I would buy one in every color, not gonna lie. So maybe they would sell at a slightly higher price point?

Well, I figure I will just work on my next crown for Pennsylvania Yuletide - tickets go on sale tomorrow yayyy! - and then see how fast I can make smaller ones after that as well.

I’ve been down all afternoon, honestly. I did finally take a shower and that helped a little. DarkKnight made us BBQ ribs for dinner so that was yummy! The three of us played Betrayal at Baldur’s Gate as the 2nd night for our board game Horror Event. MisterMoonbeam was the traitor and tried to destroy a mansion in town with a gang of kobolds. DarkKnight killed him with magic missile and then I captured enough of his group to win!

I’m absolutely exhausted now. Time for sleeps and hopefully for better feelings tomorrow!
 
Ravenwood Faire garb!

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Me & MisterMoonbeam

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A vendor took & posted our photo while we were at Faire!

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It was honestly a great day! We arrived right at 12:30 pm and met up with our new friend - the actor who stayed with us the week I had my surgery! He was working as a cast member at Ravenwood for the first time. We were excited to see him and invited him back to stay again if needed, anytime. We are unfortunately the only semi-accessible wheelchair ready house available among the theater folks in our area. Lucky for us though, since we got to meet a fun dude who has mad talent!

It was definitely a bright sunny day so I was glad we brought our UV 50+ blocking umbrellas. They’re like, blacked out on the inside? They work great for $12 on Amazon! We spent about 4 hours at Faire, having lunch from a BBQ food truck, catching parts of random shows (a magician, a wire walker, someone twirling fire poi), and just browsing shops.

Here’s some stuff we bought:

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Since I bought DarkKnight a matching black & purple medallion vest, the guys will be both in need of a solid black kilt, and right now our garb closet only has one. So we snagged one off of a rack today at a great price! We also bought a mushroom circlet for our 5-year old granddaughter, and a pair of skirt hikes for me. MisterMoonbeam looked fabulous in the black leather bracers, so we had to grab those! I saw the “dragonscale” green pouch and thought it would work for the upcoming GreenMan dance, but also maybe for my Blackbird outfit as well.

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Harry liked this iridescent green fairy dress I bought, but now that I have it home, I am a little unsure. My original thought was that it would work for my green & black Blackbird garb, but I had forgotten I had previously purchased a Moresca Gitana skirt for that. We will see I guess!

My main outfit event focus now will be Yuletide in Pennsylvania. I bought our tickets when they went on sale this morning! We’re not going to Ohio’s Yuletide but that’s okay - one is fine. I figure we will attend on a Saturday - December 14 - stay over, and then drive to NY the next day to visit with my sister for Christmas, and then return home Monday.
 
Today I spent some time trying on my garb for upcoming events. The next one I have tickets for is Pennsylvania Yuletide. I’ve known what I’m wearing for a while, but I hadn’t actually tried it all on together. It looked great!

I bought the mulled wine & gold vine set when we thought I was dying. That’s how much I loved it. I have a vixen corset, a queenie split-front skirt, a pair of arm bracers and some pockets. I desperately would love some goddess sleeves, but whoever originally purchased them are not selling at this point. I will keep looking! I’m wearing these over a gold top and a crushed gold tulip skirt. My burgundy Chelsea boots match really well too. Over all of this I will have my forest green blanket cape.

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MisterMoonbeam currently has a burgundy kilt which is a slightly lighter shade than my velvet, but it’s close.

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I ordered him a long gold piece from Holy Clothing, but it will be at least another month before it arrives - they make their items individually when ordered. I’m worried about the shade of gold it might be, but we will see when it gets here! He will be wearing his forest green long sleeve shirt with both of these.

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I packed everything up into our plastic suit/storage bags so the pieces are all together.

I also tried on items for A Midwinter Night’s Masquerade Ball, which is in January. I hadn’t given this event any real thought previously, but when I tried everything on, I was so excited! I’m going to wear a Vixen corset with a detachable high collar, matching sleeves and bracers, all in a pattern from an “Equinox in a Box” set. I’m going to put that on over my wedding dress (which was a dress I bought on Amazon) and a mini fairy skirt in a silver falling leaves pattern. All with a cropped vixen corset in blue - which I wore yesterday to Ravenwood.

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The color of the Equinox in a Box pattern looks really gray, but it’s more of a silver/blue. I took a close up of the fabric and turned it to a “vivid cool” tone. This looks closer now:

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I’m pairing this all with a headpiece I saw at the Ravenwood Faire yesterday! I didn’t buy it then, but I saw the vendor had posted it on Facebook today as still available, so I snagged it quick!

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MisterMoonbeam is going to wear his dark gray leather kilt, a white shirt and a light gray-blue hooded cape. I’m not sure what else, but he needs something more. We talked about me possibly making a headpiece for him to wear, but we will see.

There is another winter-themed dance in February during our 3 days at Mythicon, but again, I haven’t thought about it much. We each need 5 outfits for this event! My initial thought was that we would do teal, because we did that last year at the Frost Faerie dance:

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Only, I don’t have the cropped white corset anymore. We have a mix of other teal pieces, and I was really hoping to match up a new teal vest for MisterMoonbeam with my teal jacquard wench corset. The fabrics are out of sync though.

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I’m thinking about looking for a patchwork petal skirt that maybe has a lot of different teal fabrics so the marriage between these two makes more sense. I can certainly make a headpiece and boutonnière for both of us incorporating the light and dark. I do still have the teal dress and the kilt we wore last year, but none of those work well together either.

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I don’t think it’s awful, but none of it together says Frost Faerie. There’s nothing that says we HAVE to wear teal, and I’m certainly open to other ideas. I have some frosty-blue bracers and a gauzy tulle over skirt in another sort of light blue which would look great with my velvet damask silver skirt I wore to Ravenwood. I’m going to see what pops up over the next week and a half - Damsel in this Dress is doing her “13 Days of Halloween” and releasing a limited themed collection every night until the holiday. She hasn’t show teal yet, or light blue. So maybe something will spark an idea!

I’m out of room for sharing photos, so I will make one more post tonight about Mythicon.
 
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So, Mythicon is in February. We will be there for a Friday, Saturday and Sunday, and then for two dances. I posted about Frost Faerie ball up above, and I have no idea what we will be wearing.

One of the days we are going to be repping Blackbird Manor with matching outfits of black & green.

MisterMoonbeam will be wearing a black shirt and black kilt, his black Son of Sandler leather boots and a black & green medallion Flynn vest. Plus, his blackbird caplet.

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I will be wearing a black shirt by Scarlet Darkness, a black & green Moresca Gitana skirt, and a black & green medallion wench with matching pockets by Damsel in this Dress. I have zero accessories picked out yet and I will definitely be making a headpiece for myself.

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The other dance is a Green Man ball that I have pieces for but MisterMoonbeam doesnt yet. I have a 3-piece outfit in a pattern called “pistachio paisley.” It’s a vixen corset with a peplum (butt ruffle) and matching sleeves. I have a green/gold pintuck tulip skirt that looks amazing with it! I have an off-white shirt too.

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I really love this set because I think a lot of people go all-out for Green Man, and usually rep deciduous forests with big leaves. This is a different color of green but still fits the vibe. I also have the green tulle cape I wore with my mushroom outfit previously this year, that I am wearing another day to Mythicon, so if I’m feeling it, I can add it to this outfit as well. I need a headpiece, and accessories still. MisterMoonbeam doesn’t have anything picked out yet, but his gold piece from Yuletide could possibly work, as could his regular tan Flynn vest. I was looking at shirts in different shades of green tonight on Zootzu but I didn’t make any decisions yet.

Another day at Mythicon I will be wearing my cicada outfit. I’ve had this completed for a while now! Once again though, MisterMoonbeam has nothing yet. Here are some screenshots from my Pinterest board:

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I need to figure out my shoes for this one too. Maybe add some tights? I have yet to try it all on but I definitely have time for this. For MisterMoonbeam, we discussed briefly him dressing as another sort of insect or just doing his own thing.

The last day of Mythicon I haven’t themed yet. Right now I’m thinking we will maybe do the teal thing if we don’t use it for Frost Faerie. I was considering months ago about pairing teal with hot pink and I have flowers purchased already to do a headpiece with those colors. February seems forever away but I know it will come up quick. I figure it’s something I can think about in November after I am back from Arizona - we leave in a week! - and while in recovery after surgery.

Okay, even I am tired of talking about garb. For now. 😂😂
 
On Sunday MisterMoonbeam and I had lunch at Waffle House (DarkKnight had play practice). While there, we went over health insurance changes for next year. Prices went up slightly, but it was absorbable. What sucked was that if all things go as planned, neither of us will have large medical expenses next year, which means we won’t reach the deductible early. We stayed with the high-premium, low deductible plan again this year though, as the math for both options works out to about the same.

The main difference is that the plan we’re going with has an FSA rather than an HSA, so the total funds immediately. The HSA allows for payments as the payroll deductions dump into it weekly. So if we have to pay $200 for a copay, we can only cover that once we’ve deposited that $200. FSA is like, we know you’re good for the $200, so we got you now. Our medications are replenished in 3 month increments, so that means we’d have to have significant amount available to cover my Mounjaro and Dexcom sensors, and because of my specialist copays, the totals due might not keep up with what’s available in the account. My goal next year is no new credit card charges for medical payments! So FSA is the way to go.

We kept his life insurance and disability insurance at the same levels. We had put his 401(k) deposits on hold for 2024 and we are still on track to restart those in March/April. Whatever his salary increase percentage is then, we’re going to use it to get back going on that. The lowest it would be is 2% but it should be closer to 3%, and then his company matches his 401(k) deposits, so that will be significant at restarting.

DarkKnight’s insurance changes didn’t even require a meeting. He only has a single, high deductible plan and no choice about it. He has no 401(k) and we are going to address that, finally, when we have the State of the Union meeting.

I’m going to be working today on our State of the Union stuff, actually. The plan is to get together on that when I am back from Arizona. MisterMoonbeam and I leave for that trip on Sunday. I’m coming home by myself on November 4, and he will be there until November 8. So we’ll get together November 10th in the evening to go over everything.

I’ve been working bunches the last week on our October Safety stuff. We skipped last year so there is so much to be done right now! I have five main categories that need attention: Power Supply, Tools, Fire Safety, Water Supply and First Aide.

I’m pretty much done with Tools - today I’m going to do a quick run around the property and gather up everything that’s been randomly stuck in drawers and cabinets and return them all to the garage. Our garage is looking better these days, but it’s still not organized well. I purchased two complete basic tool kits though, that now have homes inside of the house. One kit is orange and the other is green. Orange is basement and green is main level. This way, when someone needs a hammer, they don’t have to rummage in the garage for it, only to find that someone used it and didn’t return it. And if someone doesn’t put away a tool kit hammer, if you see it and it’s green, you know exactly where it belongs.

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I also have completed a bit of our Power Supply category, but I’ll do more on that this afternoon. I refilled our battery case that lives in the living room, making sure they’re all charged up. I bought new AAAs and AAs. I also checked that our power bank was charged, though that is on the list for the first of every month and I know DarkKnight does check it.

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Today I need to look for where our flashlights are stashed, and check the batteries in them. I don’t actually know, to be honest! I also know we don’t have a supply of emergency candles, because we have cats. However, I did find these lanterns that look promising so I plan to buy one and see how they work before committing to more. They hold one candle so if we each had our own during a loss of power, it would make sense. We will see. I also need to make sure our phone charging cables in our car are working okay, and see if the guys think we need any cables around the house. And a set of jumper cables in each car.

I really want to get Power Supply checked off the list for this month!

First Aide is on my calendar for tomorrow. I bought two new travel kits already this month, as the ones in the cars previously have magically disappeared. The ones here in the house are a disaster. I need to empty everything and take stock, then reorder to refill. Part of this category is also pulling out our bins of medication and getting rid of expired or no-longer used meds. This shouldn’t take too long - it mostly comes down to money and reordering things like neosporin and gloves and Advil as those get pillaged during the year.

Water Supply is going to be pricey because this is a new house and we’ve never addressed it since moving here. I want at least two rain barrels installed. We have two bathtubs and no Water Bobs at the moment. I am fairly sure we have a stack of water bottles in the garage but I need to look at the dates. In the past we have talked about buying some water bricks for storage but we never did.

Each water fountain in our house for the cats is supposed to have a pitcher of water right next to it, so if we had an extended time with nothing flowing from the sink, we’d still be able to keep our cats good for a while without touching our own emergency supply. I think only one has a pitcher - in MisterMoonbeam’s bedroom. I have zero idea what happened to the others. We need five more pitchers, and there’s still no water fountain set up in the basement, so that needs to happen.

I also have Life Straws on our camping wish list as we have zero in our closet. Honestly, these will probably get pushed off again, as our house supply is more important. My funds aren’t limitless!

Fire Safety is the last category and arguably the most important for us to address. We bought half a dozen smoke detectors when we moved in, and apparently they all got installed in the old house right before we moved. I know the guys put up one in the hallway next to the garage, but that was it. I didn’t pay attention, but we have zero others in the house right now! WTF. There are some hard wired ancient-looking ones but none of us know if they work or not.

My plan is to buy a bunch ASAP and get them up. We also have no carbon monoxide detectors. That said, we do have at least 3 fire extinguishers - they need to be looked at to make sure they are still good and that everyone knows where they are located. I did buy two fire blankets for the kitchen this month already and those are in a cupboard - we need to get them put someplace that makes sense.

I plan to call the fire station in November and ask them to come give us an inspection to check on us and make sure I haven’t missed anything.

Oh, and we need a new fire door between the house and the garage. That’s about the only thing I might not do this month due to time and expense. There aren’t any cars in our garage currently so it’s not critical.

I think this month is going to cost us close to $500 (without the door). It’s aggravating, but after ignoring this for a year, it’s time to fucking do it. I don’t like not sticking to my plans and in the old house we did these checks and updates every October.
 
Interesting, this M character 💵🕵️‍♀️, It's interesting the Poly people we meet I thought Poly meant something like the care bears where you automatically know the land you're in. But who knows maybe that's maybe the new future of Poly 1🩷,2,🤍3🖤,4,🤎5💜,6,💙7,💚8,💛9,❤️10💞
 
Interesting, this M character 💵🕵️‍♀️, It's interesting the Poly people we meet I thought Poly meant something like the care bears where you automatically know the land you're in. But who knows maybe that's maybe the new future of Poly 1🩷,2,🤍3🖤,4,🤎5💜,6,💙7,💚8,💛9,❤️10💞
I’m sorry, I think you are commenting on something from over a decade ago!
 
I spent most of the day yesterday out with a friend. We went shopping for beads and flower stems, and we stopped by Plato’s Closet because she wanted to look at some stuff. I tried on some winter coats but didn’t buy anything there.

I did buy a feather charm (plus other charms) and I spent last night and this morning making this necklace. Afterward, I went on Etsy and bought some crow charms so I can make some bracelets. All of that will be for Mythicon in February, for my green & black blackbird outfit. Harry didn’t help much, but he did hang out with me the entire time!

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I’m not really great at making chains. I haven’t tried making wire jewelry in over six years. I wasn’t good at it then either! 😂 However, if I don’t focus on the wire parts too much, I do like the overall look of the necklace. I might go back later this week and make another layer of beads on each side.

I want these real bad:

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There was a yellow pair of Docs at Plato’s Closet that I really wanted as well, but they were a size 8. I’m going to go back to look at those again tomorrow because I think I might have misread them and the 8 was in the men’s size, which means they are 9 in women’s and are my size! They’re only $60 so I am keeping my fingers crossed. I haven’t yet started my queen bee outfit, but I have a Pinterest for it and I would wear them regardless!

Green or yellow - I don’t need either. I have black and white Docs, and both will suffice for different garb looks I have coming up. I will get the yellow since that price is so good - if they are still at the store and they are actually in my size!

I think the rest of the afternoon here I’m going to pull out my laptop and work on the State of the Union paperwork.
 
Omg my hands hurt, and so does my back! I decided I was feeling more creative than budget-minded this afternoon, so I started work on my necklace for A Midwinter Night’s Dream Masquerade Ball. I’m rewearing the navy & silver corset I had on for Ravenwood Faire, with the navy shimmer shirt, but I think I’m going to wear a different bottom half and definitely a different headpiece. I’m going to theme it to nighttime celestial stuff.

I finished the necklace and a pair of earrings. I think I am done making jewelry until my body recovers! 😆

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Tonight we had a fire outside. I love this photo, because you can see Skelliot in our sunroom!

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I did get some State of the Union stuff done - I polled the guys by way of separate messages to see which of our streaming services they’re actively watching right now. Here is what we have and what we’re keeping:

$6.35 Dropout: All of us watch this and we love it lots. Currently the most watched service in our house! There’s Game Changer, Make Some Noise, Gastronauts, and many other shows that we are eagerly waiting for new seasons of at the moment.

$0 Netflix: (included in cell phone bill) I watch this occasionally, but terrible holiday rom-coms are starting soon so it will become the most watched channel in a few weeks. 😂

$20.14 Disney+ & Hulu: (bundled) DarkKnight is watching Only Murders in the Building.

$9.53 Discovery+: No one is watching this right now. CUT

$8.47 Peacock: No one is watching this right now. CUT We will resubscribe when Traitors is back and we don’t have anything else to watch.

$13.77 Paramount+: No one is watching this right now. CUT We will resubscribe when Lower Decks & Strange New Worlds come back!

$18.01 Max: DarkKnight is currently watching The Penguin and is waiting for the next season of My Adventures with Superman.

Here are two sleepy kitties this afternoon:

Harry

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I had my pre-op appointment with my ENT surgeon today. It was good and MisterMoonbeam went with me. I cried afterward a little bit. I’m scared I’m going to lose my voice permanently. I had to sign a paper saying I understood this was a risk. Apparently it’s a 3% chance to lose your voice for six months and a 1% to lose it permanently. So it’s rare. I’m still afraid.

I also had to sign a form giving permission to put my parathyroids back if they accidentally pull them out. I guess the body will reintegrate them if removed? I was like, uh okay! lol I was told too that she’s thinking it will be two nights in the hospital instead of just one.

I had to call and make an appointment with my primary care office for an authorization inspection or something. That was easy.

TheEngineer came over and the three of us played Sub Terra again. It was fun! Then a friend came over and borrow garb. She’s going to the Pennsylvania Ren Faire tomorrow. It was so nice to make her feel beautiful! She’s never dressed up before.

When DarkKnight got home from work, he went with MisterMoonbeam and I for Quiznos, which we ate in a small park. We went for a walk after.

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As you can see, I got my Docs!

We drove home and then MisterMoonbeam remarked that he needed new khakis for the trip to Arizona. We drove to the mall and spent $600 or so on new clothes for him! He got 3 sportcoats, 2 dress shirts, a pair of jeans, a pair of black dress pants and the khakis. Oh, and a belt! He was uncomfortable spending the money but it’s important that he looks the part at work. I helped him make outfits when we got home, and packed him up for the trip. His carryon is stuffed and so is my biggest suitcase! I will pack my stuff tomorrow.
 
Our friends in Virginia (the broken triad) held their annual pumpkin carving party and we drove the two+ hours to attend. I decided to wear my foxy witch hat last minute. I thought I looked cute. It took a while for me to find something to wear - I was experiencing some real body issues today.

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At the party, I made a dinosaur egg! The raptor makes noise and the eyes light up. I saw something like it on Facebook and decided to make it my own.

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MisterMoonbeam made a grim reaper:

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DarkKnight’s pumpkin:

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MisterMoonbeam, me, DarkKnight

It was great to see everyone and I’m writing this in the car on the way back. :)
 
At the airport to head to Phoenix for 8 days. I’m stressed to the max and now I got a message that there will be no WiFi in flight. Ugh.
 
Good morning from Mesa, Arizona!

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