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My wife is my NP and my girlfriend will eventually move into her collocated house with me.
At the moment, there is no financial intermingling with my girlfriend. Technically, my wife has her own accounts and money, but it’s nearly impossible to not have some connection with a state licensed marriage.
I am watching as my girlfriend’s hours are cut and her finances strained.
There is a massive wealth and income difference between us, as is there between my wife and I. This would likely be the case with most potential partners.
I could easily wipe away her debts and eliminate her expenses, but that’s going to set a horrible precedent that’ll be hard to come back from.
She hasn’t asked for help and I am currently taking the position that I shouldn’t just step in.
Any thoughts on how I should handle this?
At the moment, there is no financial intermingling with my girlfriend. Technically, my wife has her own accounts and money, but it’s nearly impossible to not have some connection with a state licensed marriage.
I am watching as my girlfriend’s hours are cut and her finances strained.
There is a massive wealth and income difference between us, as is there between my wife and I. This would likely be the case with most potential partners.
I could easily wipe away her debts and eliminate her expenses, but that’s going to set a horrible precedent that’ll be hard to come back from.
She hasn’t asked for help and I am currently taking the position that I shouldn’t just step in.
Any thoughts on how I should handle this?