Rg_Leia
New member
Hey there!
So my husband and I are beginning this journey. We've been talking a lot about our open relationship model.
We both agree that monogamy isn't a value we would like to keep in our marriage.We also had a couple of interviews with a positive sex/poly friendly professional who help us settings up rules and boundaries.
We were almost done with the setting up, agreeing on an open relationship,.mostly looking recreational sex, but keeping our relationship as the core one.
Still, I feel my husband is more inclined to swinging rather than have an open relationship.
Me on the other side, I feel that swinging is something I would like to do, but having an open relationship is also important.
We discussed this with a member of my family who's been into swinging for a while now, and they suggested we start with swinging since going from monogamy to open relationship could be hard to handle.
Now I feel like I'm stuck, feeling I would have to compromise my preference to avoid conflict.
Would appreciate some else's outlook about this.
Thanks!
So my husband and I are beginning this journey. We've been talking a lot about our open relationship model.
We both agree that monogamy isn't a value we would like to keep in our marriage.We also had a couple of interviews with a positive sex/poly friendly professional who help us settings up rules and boundaries.
We were almost done with the setting up, agreeing on an open relationship,.mostly looking recreational sex, but keeping our relationship as the core one.
Still, I feel my husband is more inclined to swinging rather than have an open relationship.
Me on the other side, I feel that swinging is something I would like to do, but having an open relationship is also important.
We discussed this with a member of my family who's been into swinging for a while now, and they suggested we start with swinging since going from monogamy to open relationship could be hard to handle.
Now I feel like I'm stuck, feeling I would have to compromise my preference to avoid conflict.
Would appreciate some else's outlook about this.
Thanks!