Hello one and all, thanks for having me, I’m happy to be here.
I am a 52 year old man, a little bit bisexual, 13 years sober and happily in a relationship with my partner of the last 7 years. She is a 27 year old bisexual woman. We have a lot of common interests and are very close. We do have an age gap, it’s what they used to call a May-September romance, but I like to think of it as more May-late July.
We have always practiced some form of non monogamy, sometimes as a priority, and sometimes conceptually only. I have the hotwife kink, so enjoy my partner being with other hetero and bi men, and the more she likes them, the more exciting I find it. We’ve done this in the past with friends of hers, had the odd threesome with a bisexual man and so on. All positive experiences. Kink dating sites have seemed like a lot of effort and less enjoyable. We both work in restaurants, so easy to get to know new friends.
We recently decided to move the dial a bit to polyamory, after hitting a bump in the road. We are both artists and my partner studies fine arts, she fell head over heels for a fellow student - we thought we might separate, I was hurt, she was unsure( and we have since learned about NRE). That relationship fizzled (He was quite the cowboy and manipulator, and nothing to give in the bedroom). After some discussion we alighted on Poly - my consent for her to have relationships without restriction and her commitment to nurture and grow our current relationship.She very much wants to keep our nesting relationship flourishing. We both feel very positive (and she has a hot date coming up).
I do not see other partners, nor do I have a desire to. The notion of dating other hetero women seems really unappealing. My partner would not enjoy me doing so at all. I did rather enjoy dating a bisexual man as a couple, and my partner also, so if someone comes along we might do that. Asymetrically polyamorous is the jargon for what we are doingI think? We are happy and this feels like an exciting new adventure.
I am a 52 year old man, a little bit bisexual, 13 years sober and happily in a relationship with my partner of the last 7 years. She is a 27 year old bisexual woman. We have a lot of common interests and are very close. We do have an age gap, it’s what they used to call a May-September romance, but I like to think of it as more May-late July.
We have always practiced some form of non monogamy, sometimes as a priority, and sometimes conceptually only. I have the hotwife kink, so enjoy my partner being with other hetero and bi men, and the more she likes them, the more exciting I find it. We’ve done this in the past with friends of hers, had the odd threesome with a bisexual man and so on. All positive experiences. Kink dating sites have seemed like a lot of effort and less enjoyable. We both work in restaurants, so easy to get to know new friends.
We recently decided to move the dial a bit to polyamory, after hitting a bump in the road. We are both artists and my partner studies fine arts, she fell head over heels for a fellow student - we thought we might separate, I was hurt, she was unsure( and we have since learned about NRE). That relationship fizzled (He was quite the cowboy and manipulator, and nothing to give in the bedroom). After some discussion we alighted on Poly - my consent for her to have relationships without restriction and her commitment to nurture and grow our current relationship.She very much wants to keep our nesting relationship flourishing. We both feel very positive (and she has a hot date coming up).
I do not see other partners, nor do I have a desire to. The notion of dating other hetero women seems really unappealing. My partner would not enjoy me doing so at all. I did rather enjoy dating a bisexual man as a couple, and my partner also, so if someone comes along we might do that. Asymetrically polyamorous is the jargon for what we are doingI think? We are happy and this feels like an exciting new adventure.
