Hello From Asia (33 Male 30 Female)

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Rtzzzz

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Hey Everyone

I am 33 male and my wife 30. We are happily married. We always talk about opening up our relationship but the thought never lasted for mor than few hours. We really want it so i want to explore more so i can try to convince her and here in Asia its not very easy to get into this.

is there any WhatsApp groups where we can discuss and anyone who would like to help.

Looking forward to it madly <3
 
Hi and welcome 😀

Have a watch of this for things to consider.


We also have a lot of resources here:


Take your time to understand all the pitfalls there may be when opening up your relationship.

I don't know of any WhatsApp groups, but feel free to ask questions here, but be prepared for a little lag in answering as we are from all over the world.

Would you like to let us know what you want from "opening up" as there are many different ways this can look like.

Best,
Evie
 
Greetings Rtzzzz,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

I hope you attain the open relationship you are hoping for. It's challenging, but it can be worth it. I'm not familiar with WhatsApp groups but right here on Polyamory.com you can find lots of good info and feedback. Just let us know what your questions are. Good luck!

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter" :)

Notes:

There's a *lot* of good info in Golden Nuggets. Have a look!

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Welcome aboard!
 
Hey Thanks for responding.

I am not sure but we are just exploring we love the thought of multiple partners and we wish to explore. I want her to initiate this. I wish if she finds a bf to be with sometimes. She is very shy. Once she is up and ready we might get involve into more activities.

I just want suggestions on how to motivate her.
 
Motivate?

You could watch movies, here's a list that Kevin has recommended before:

"December Bride" (1990).
"A Small Circle of Friends" (1980).
"Vicky Cristina Barcelona" (2008).
"Professor Marston and the Wonder Women" (2017).
"Savages" (2012).
"Her" (2013).
"Bandits" (2001).
"Paint Your Wagon" (1969).
"Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid" (1969).
"Summer Lovers" (1982).
"Threesome" (1994).
"Three" (2010).

Here's a thread with these, and more: https://polyamory.com/threads/polyamory-films-and-books.155479/
 
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