OctoberPagan
New member
Hi all,
Given the sensitive nature here we use Pseudonyms, I'm Dagaz and my Wife is Phoenix. After having several shared ENM experiences we decided we wanted more. A few years back we joined one of the major paid subscription Swinger Sites, and cultivated various friendships, most people were in other parts of the country but we had genuine intentions of meeting up with some of these couples when geography and time would allow. Fast Forward to more recently, we both created profiles on Re@@it. Once again it was our intention to meet other couples for sexy fun time. Whelp, we met another married couple there. We arranged a dinner date, which went very well, followed by a Hot time at a Hotel...Things flowed effortlessly and it was instantly, more passionate and tender than simple sex for all 4 of us, we have met at one another's homes since then and have all rejected several people/couples wanting to Swing with each of our couples since. We realized not only that we have no desire to Swing any longer, but we are all increasingly in love as a foursome and feel so fortunate to have found each other and to all be in agreement that we all want an exclusive relationship involving just the four of us. We have all done away with Swinger related sites, profiles etc. This took us all by surprise with both couples having married in 2007. In any case, this is more of a "Hey we're here post" with 3 of the 4 of us being in our mid 40's and me being in my early 50's we are far from relationship naive, so, although this new territory, we aren't reaching out for advice of any sort right now. However, we are now here and feel we've found a place where we can reach out if we need it.
Given the sensitive nature here we use Pseudonyms, I'm Dagaz and my Wife is Phoenix. After having several shared ENM experiences we decided we wanted more. A few years back we joined one of the major paid subscription Swinger Sites, and cultivated various friendships, most people were in other parts of the country but we had genuine intentions of meeting up with some of these couples when geography and time would allow. Fast Forward to more recently, we both created profiles on Re@@it. Once again it was our intention to meet other couples for sexy fun time. Whelp, we met another married couple there. We arranged a dinner date, which went very well, followed by a Hot time at a Hotel...Things flowed effortlessly and it was instantly, more passionate and tender than simple sex for all 4 of us, we have met at one another's homes since then and have all rejected several people/couples wanting to Swing with each of our couples since. We realized not only that we have no desire to Swing any longer, but we are all increasingly in love as a foursome and feel so fortunate to have found each other and to all be in agreement that we all want an exclusive relationship involving just the four of us. We have all done away with Swinger related sites, profiles etc. This took us all by surprise with both couples having married in 2007. In any case, this is more of a "Hey we're here post" with 3 of the 4 of us being in our mid 40's and me being in my early 50's we are far from relationship naive, so, although this new territory, we aren't reaching out for advice of any sort right now. However, we are now here and feel we've found a place where we can reach out if we need it.
