Hello 💕

[xmoonember]

Hello! You can call me Ember.

I am a 35F from SoCal who recently fell into polyamory.

I'm neurodivergent and enjoy various special interests including K-pop, anime, games of all kinds, and reading. I love chatting about all types of hobbies.

My current relationship structure:

• Duck (35M), husband: Together for 16 years, married for 7. We have two children together, a 3.5 yr old boy and a 1 yr old girl. Also dating Raven.
• Raven (29F), paramour: Dating 4 months. Together with Finch 5 months. Has an additional local partner, as well as a couple they see back home.
• Finch (25M/NB), paramour: Dating 4 months, D/s relationship (sub). Together with Raven 5 months. Has 2-3 additional kink play partners [Sparrow (30NB), Owl (26F), and Hawk (26F)].

I have autonomous relationships with Duck, Raven, and Finch. Raven and I additionally are a throuple with Duck/Finch. The four of us consider ourselves a polycule.

I've joined this forum to find a safe space to essentially journal about my poly journey. I am very open to kind and gentle feedback, including that which may challenge my thinking. I hope to avoid severe judgement or poly-policing (ahem, Reddit...), so please be considerate. We'll see if this sticks.

Anyway, nice to meet you!

 

[kdt26417]

Greetings Ember,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

We have a good board for you to journal about your poly journey, it is called Life stories and blogs. You shouldn't have to worry about receiving criticism on that board, unless you expressly invite it. In any case, to me it sounds like you are doing poly right so far, carry on.

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"

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