Hey, from the Gulf Coast of ms

Justdragit8455

Justdragit8455

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To start off im robert 35. My wifes name is krystal 33. We have been married 14 yrs on jan 11. But have been together 16 yrs. We have 3 kids 9,12, and 14. My wife came out bi a yr ago. We had a female that lived with us as our girlfriend but instead of wanting to build something. She wanted it to be just casual. So it ended. So now looking looking to build another deep connection.
For krystal
She is in to horror movies, thrifting, dancing, and karaoke.
For me
Im into metal fabrication, custom vehicles, and video games.
For te both of us
Custom car shows, trying new places, hiking, fishing, kayaking, shooting pool, cuddling on the couch, movies, and we both go to the gym 4 to 5 days a week.

We are on the gulf coast of ms. My wife and i are looking for a female to be our equal partner. Start out as dating and see where it goes. Looking for someone that we can both connect with on a deeper level than just physical. Someone that we can all be there for each other. Biggest thing for us is 100% honesty and communication. Sometimes its one on one or all three. Doesnt matter if it just my wife and the special someone or me and that someone on the date. Looking for a female around 25 to 37. But if we vibe that doesnt really matter. Definitely want to get to know the person before anything physical.
 
Greetings Robert (and Krystal too),
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

Sorry your first foray into poly didn't work out so well, I hope you'll have better luck in the future, if there's any way I can help let me know. You sound like a cool couple, and you are looking for more than just a casual thing. I would think the right person for you would be out there somewhere.

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter" :)

Notes:

There's a *lot* of good info in Golden Nuggets. Have a look!

Please read through the guidelines if you haven't already.

Note: You needn't read every reply to your posts, especially if someone posts in a disagreeable way. Given the size and scope of the site it's hard not to run into the occasional disagreeable person. Please contact the mods if you do (or if you see any spam), and you can block the person if you want.

If you have any questions about the board itself, please private-message a mod and they'll do their best to help.

Welcome aboard!
 
kdt26417 said:
Greetings Robert (and Krystal too),
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

Sorry your first foray into poly didn't work out so well, I hope you'll have better luck in the future, if there's any way I can help let me know. You sound like a cool couple, and you are looking for more than just a casual thing. I would think the right person for you would be out there somewhere.

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter" :)

Notes:

There's a *lot* of good info in Golden Nuggets. Have a look!

Please read through the guidelines if you haven't already.

Note: You needn't read every reply to your posts, especially if someone posts in a disagreeable way. Given the size and scope of the site it's hard not to run into the occasional disagreeable person. Please contact the mods if you do (or if you see any spam), and you can block the person if you want.

If you have any questions about the board itself, please private-message a mod and they'll do their best to help.

Welcome aboard!
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Thanks for the info
 
Justdragit8455 said:
I'm Robert, 35. My wife's name is Krystal, 33. We have been married 14 yrs, but have been together 16 yrs. We have 3 kids... My wife came out bi a yr ago. We are now looking looking to build a deep connection...
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Hi. It sounds like you've come to this board to meet a unicorn, a bi woman whom you could both "share," and make into a long-term partner.

This is not a dating site. If you read our guidelines you will see this is a discussion board. We do have a "dating" section, but it's just for overflow for confused people.

There are many reasons why looking for a bi woman (a hot bi babe) for a couple to share is pretty much doomed to failure. Mainstream media doesn't provide an honest picture of this. And certainly, threeway sex porn makes it all look so easy, and hot. It isn't.

Perhaps reading a few articles from our resource list will make this clearer.


www.readyforpolyamory.com

Triad or V - What's More Complicated?

I get a lot of people new to polyamory insisting that they must date together, or meet people together, because it "will be less complicated." I see this in comments on social media, on dating app profiles, on couple's profiles on social media (that black and red one that starts with an F...
www.readyforpolyamory.com www.readyforpolyamory.com

davidlnoble.livejournal.com

So, someone called you a Unicorn Hunter?

This article is a long, technical discussion of what being a "Unicorn Hunter" means, what's wrong with it, and how people in such a situation can try to avoid the negative stereotypes associated with such behavior and get the things that they are ultimately looking for. It is written in a…
davidlnoble.livejournal.com davidlnoble.livejournal.com

I hope that helps.
 
For any potential partner of this user, I urge you to proceed with caution. I dated them and was non-consensually vetoed out. (I am NOT the girlfriend mentioned as I did have a seemingly deep connection with both.) It was agreed veto wasn't on the table, and yet it was used. The promise of honest and open communication is misleading as I no longer know what I was told was real or not. Such as, I was told that the reason I was being vetoed by Krystal was because she was advised not to date by her therapist... that was less than two weeks before this seeking post was written. I was love bombed, emotionally manipulated and completely blindsided by the veto. One day we were planning out future together, the next I was ghosted for a couple days until they finally came back to give me some semblance of an explanation. The lack of autonomy in the relationships is also deeply problematic and it is only in hindsight that I see how controlling Krystal was. I shouldn't have been afraid to talk to my boyfriend and monitor the time spent talking to him for fear of her jealousy. I don't normally post things like this, but the level of hurt, deception and lack of ethical polyamory by these two are at such a level that the community should be aware. (I also sent them the So You Have Been Called A Unicorn Hunter? article at the end based on their unethical behaviour.)
 
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