Kynde
Active member
I have a first date set up for tomorrow with someone that I can't quite tell if there is a catch to this?? I'm on the spectrum so I have a hard time sometimes with reading a situation. This one seems to easy and that makes me nervous.
He has an amazing dating profile. He is long-time poly, told me he's poly satisfied, but has room for one more if they are a good fit. We texted easily through conversations. He was respectful, just a tiny bit flirty. He told me he maintains lifelong connections with former partners, they are all still friends and even play board games together, etc. His last partner had to move to another country, but she left a letter of recommendation for him to share with potential partners! I read it and it's long and detailed, and full of love. (If I found someone that perfect I'd have a hard time moving! :-( )
I looked him up by phone number via background check (my policy on everyone). He is using his real number, is a real person, and he has a very solid professional standing. I matched his profile pic to the professional photo.
So, normally I'd be like heck, yes, let me get to know this person better! But the other part of me is saying this is too perfect.
Why would he be interested in me when he could have others who are in a better situation, younger, etc.?
Input, thoughts, advice?
He has an amazing dating profile. He is long-time poly, told me he's poly satisfied, but has room for one more if they are a good fit. We texted easily through conversations. He was respectful, just a tiny bit flirty. He told me he maintains lifelong connections with former partners, they are all still friends and even play board games together, etc. His last partner had to move to another country, but she left a letter of recommendation for him to share with potential partners! I read it and it's long and detailed, and full of love. (If I found someone that perfect I'd have a hard time moving! :-( )
I looked him up by phone number via background check (my policy on everyone). He is using his real number, is a real person, and he has a very solid professional standing. I matched his profile pic to the professional photo.
So, normally I'd be like heck, yes, let me get to know this person better! But the other part of me is saying this is too perfect.
Why would he be interested in me when he could have others who are in a better situation, younger, etc.?
Input, thoughts, advice?