My story is sort of long but I'm hoping others have advice for me. I'm 29 years old and my husband and I have been married for 5 years (together for 12). We were each others firsts and only people we had slept with.
3 years ago while we were hanging out with his best friend we ended up having a three some and he loved seeing me with someone else. So I continued to sleep with his friend for years. My husband never slept with anyone else because I am a very jealous person.
Now I don't sleep with his best friend anymore because I developed feelings and stopped because I want to be with my husband. But he doesn't feel we are even and can't stop thinking about wanting to sleep with other girls.
I break down crying everytime I even think about him flirting and sending sexts with another girl. I don't know how to get over the feeling of "not being enough" for him.
Recently I also found out that he was flirting with a girl behind my back and had plans to meet up with her. He stopped talking to her though because he developed a crush for her. He assures me if he starts getting feelings for a girl he is flirting and sexting that he will stop talking to her. But how do I not live with that fear every single day that he is falling for someone else?
3 years ago while we were hanging out with his best friend we ended up having a three some and he loved seeing me with someone else. So I continued to sleep with his friend for years. My husband never slept with anyone else because I am a very jealous person.
Now I don't sleep with his best friend anymore because I developed feelings and stopped because I want to be with my husband. But he doesn't feel we are even and can't stop thinking about wanting to sleep with other girls.
I break down crying everytime I even think about him flirting and sending sexts with another girl. I don't know how to get over the feeling of "not being enough" for him.
Recently I also found out that he was flirting with a girl behind my back and had plans to meet up with her. He stopped talking to her though because he developed a crush for her. He assures me if he starts getting feelings for a girl he is flirting and sexting that he will stop talking to her. But how do I not live with that fear every single day that he is falling for someone else?