Lack of jealousy due to attractiveness (I feel really awful admitting this)

[Mignonne]

No, I am thoroughly enjoying this derailed thread. I do this on FB quite frequently, so I hope it doesn't get taken down. I think I've aired out my guilty conscience about the OP and purged it a bit.

I'm pretty chill. You know, classically trained and all. lol

Oh, and no, I have not smacked her ass, I am usually the on the recieving end of that. It's the only ASSet I've got.

So Dick is a danseur, I was hoping we could Tango or Rumba.

 

[Norwegianpoly]

Being the sexiest is not so sexy

I think it is easy to interprete intense passion or care as "No way he/she can be with anyone else but me like this". I used to touch upon this, when I was sort of dating (by lack of better words) a guy who was also in a relationship, but a shaky one. He was usually giving me compliments in a way that reduced her, he even claimed they didn't have that much sex. That sort of made me feel prideful, like oh, he likes me even better than his long term girlfriend.

Later, I came to see it differently. I have not seen them in bed, but I have witnessed a couple of times how he is very into her. They have a special, sweet vibe together that is very different from the more straight-forward sexual attraction he had with me. I am sure he commented upon me because I was different to what he had experiencec before. But also, this was a way for him to feel...sort of monogamous. With me, he could diminish what he had with her. I am sure, when they were not fighting, he did the same with her.

What I found out in the end, is that I actually don't think it is that sexy to be "the most sexy". It hurts and confuses me when someone who is supposed to love two people reserve most of their love for one. It doesn't make me feel more loved, it makes me feel diminished. Because I did feel a strong connection with her, too, and whatever he did to her that was unkind, I felt he hurt me.

Now I don't have issues with those things so much becaue that relation(ship) ended. I have my boys, one is monogamous and the other wants to persue a relationship with a woman I respect very much. And yes, I do think I am more attractive then her, but that is not the issue. From my husband's point of view, of course the person he dates is attractive, he is dating her and I hope he finds in her whatever he is looking for.

 

[Dickdomin]

No, I am thoroughly enjoying this derailed thread. I do this on FB quite frequently, so I hope it doesn't get taken down. I think I've aired out my guilty conscience about the OP and purged it a bit.

Dis thread be on de rails. Take it down, after MY "sage advice" and deprive the world of my enlightened dimwittedness ( or dimwitt redness as autocorrect tried to editorialize)

I'm pretty chill. You know, classically trained and all. lol

I thought I saw some ice crystals around the edges

Oh, and no, I have not smacked her ass, I am usually the on the recieving end of that. It's the only ASSet I've got.

Which would make you qualified to be the one to move the pair of you into your uncomfortable zone.

I would intersperse this with thumb pressing G-spot and forefinger diddling clit to the edge, but not over, more ass spanking until she loses her mind, has a meltdown and keep going.

You do not need to keep "your bitch" locked up and in the cellar neglected. That can cause some very unhealthy expressions of itself.

While Igor is insecure, I feel like this disconnect between you and Baby and Baby trying to stay and play only inside the crib is the key to this lock.

Let her cry, let her wail, let her promise and blubber, but take her to the cathartic breakdown. But please do be prepared to be the homely one when she emerges. I have always been stunned as in the "I had no fucking clue that person was in there" result. Are you following the DebbieandRay saga? If not go take a peek.

So Dick is a danseur, I was hoping we could Tango

Only if there is hair pulling and dragging you across the floor by said, and I refuse to wear the knotted scarf around my neck (I must have been hung in a past lifetime... By the neck, get your mind out of the gutter. You slot!)

If I am asked to hang a Galluoise from the corner of my mouth, please advise, so I can find a bit of cow and goat dung here in the farm and roll it up for practice.

or Rumba.

This will require a bit of practice, perhaps training. You might have to see if you can get Mr. Switzerland to get his Nazi uniform out of mothballs to assist. Steel toed shoes will be recommended.

 

[kdt26417]

Good God Dickdomin, you are gonna get me into so much trouble. (And it's all your fault, too!) I am now visualizing getting into trouble. (I didn't do it! He did it! Him! The hairy one!)

Now get back on ze nut, immediately.
Love,
Kevin.