I think trusting your partner to be a good 'selector' is so important. I don't know how people cope with partners who lack sense in that area.
I think trusting your partner to be a good 'selector' is relationship " i assuming because she wanted to make plans with s so important. I don't know how people cope with partners who lack sense in that area.
From what I understand, he, his wife and hot girl were a housesharing triad for 25 years, then hot girl moved out to marry some other guy but they still dated for another 15 years, making it 40.
"From what I understand, he, his wife and hot girl were a housesharing triad for 25 years, then hot girl moved out to marry some other guy but they still dated for another 15 years, making it 40."
I find that one of the interesting aspects of poly when we are all in the same place is that, although there is absolutely no interest in doing poly like a triad, there is definetely some kind of energy there that is more than monogamyx2. I don't even know how to describe it, but it is like....they pursue me together, not in an overt sexual sense, but it is very romantic. For instance the three of us will be out on a date (we mostly go out all three of us, although I date them seperately when we are in different places) and they will start to talk about me, refer to me as "Our woman" and compliment me. It is not quite like any feeling I have had before. I have tried talking to other hinges about it, but I am not sure if people don't experience the same way or if it is simply too personal to share. It feels very personal to me...at the same time I am like: Why didn't anybody tell me love could be as great as this? Where are the novels written about poly love that feels this way? Like seriously I am going to burst if I don't tell anybody just how wondeful it feels.
Last night Dude was teaching MrS how to wax my legs and the dynamic was just precious.
I wish I could train ..err teach... someone to sugar my legs for me. I prefer someone else doing it, but I'm too cheap to pay anyone when it's so simple to do at home. Just tedious.
Oh you lucky girl! That sounds lovely, indeed. Wishing you luck finding the manicurist as wellFinally, Dude was all "how hard can it be?" We bought a set up (both hard and soft wax) and he taught himself from YouTube videos. The first few sessions were a scream (somewhat literally ) He has perfected the legs (we only do knees down) so that is why he was teaching MrS. Uses 4 strips, 3 swipes each - and we are done.
(Lotus cuts my hair and MrS tweezes my eyebrows. Just need to find someone to do gel manicures and I am set!