Why do my partners enjoy telling me they had sex with each other when they don't want to have sex with me? I am starting to get upset every time they have sex because they don't want to have sex with me. I know im not the most attractive person in our relationship but neither are sexually attracted to me anymore. My gf has never been that way with me and my bf and I have been together for 6+ years and recently he isn't wanting to be with me that way. Am I doing something wrong that warrants this?