New, mono-poly, wanting more tools

Probably the final update: I informed my husband that I was considering divorce, that I didn't see a version of the marriage where we were both happy, but that if he could come up with a solution, then I was all ears. He didn't even like hearing "the D word" but said he'd think about it, that he had a lot of emotions to unpack. After his weekend with his girlfriend, he quietly took the rice cooker and blender!

Anyway, we're getting a divorce. Adjusting will be a hard process, but I am energized about it. I wanted to reach out and just say thank you to everyone for the help... It didn't save my marriage, but that's okay; I learned so much, and I'm grateful for all the insight and wisdom!

Thank you for speaking to me about this!
 
While I'm sorry to hear about the divorce, it sounds like it is the best decision in the circumstances. Once it is over, the weird and the wonky parts will STOP, which will be good for you!

Hang in there as this finishes shaking out.

Galagirl
 
GalaGirl said:
While I'm sorry to hear about the divorce, it sounds like it is the best decision in the circumstances. Once it is over, the weird and the wonky parts will STOP, which will be good for you!

Hang in there as this finishes shaking out.

Galagirl
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Thank you! I'm being an optimist and looking forward to getting over these last hurdles!
 
Hi Urraca,

Thanks for that last update, hopefully you know you're always welcome to come back here and do more posts, but I can see how this is the logical conclusion to the story. I'm sorry you're getting the divorce, but I feel that under the circumstances it is the best thing. Hopefully you can get a fresh start on a better life after this, you've certainly endured enough of the bad. Hang in there, and don't be a stranger!

Sincerely,
Kevin T.
 
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