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aarbee

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I just thought I'd join up, 'cuz someone told me about it. I'm a WM, age 45. My wife is a WF, age 39, and we've been married since 2011. We have a son, born 2014. We live in Chicago. Our good friend, and intimate member of our relationship, is a WM, age 38, who lives in Dallas. While we've been friends for about 15 years, our relationship rose to the intimate level 8 years ago. Our son is not part of the relationship, and is not aware of it. Want to know more?
 
Greetings aarbee,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

It sounds like you have an MMF triad, let me know if I have misread that. It's great that the three of you get along so well together, and have had a good long relationship so far. Do you think you'll ever tell your son? I am just curious about that. Anyway, it's great to have you onboard.

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter" :)

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Welcome aboard!
 
kdt26417 said:
Greetings aarbee,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

It sounds like you have an MMF triad, let me know if I have misread that. It's great that the three of you get along so well together, and have had a good long relationship so far. Do you think you'll ever tell your son? I am just curious about that. Anyway, it's great to have you onboard.

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter" :)

Notes:

There's a *lot* of good info in Golden Nuggets. Have a look!

Please read through the guidelines if you haven't already.

Note: You needn't read every reply to your posts, especially if someone posts in a disagreeable way. Given the size and scope of the site it's hard not to run into the occasional disagreeable person. Please contact the mods if you do (or if you see any spam), and you can block the person if you want.

If you have any questions about the board itself, please private-message a mod and they'll do their best to help.

Welcome aboard!
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Thank you; I've never been clear on the correct designation of our relationship...whether it's MMF, as you suggest, or MFM, as I've seen elsewhere. Whatever, we're two hommes and one femme, and we fit together! Re: telling our son...probably not. Kids can't even imagine their parents having sex, much less in a threesome! Thanks again!
 
So how do the logistics work? You visit your Dallas partner when you can send the kid to grandparents for a while or something?
 
Evie said:
So how do the logistics work? You visit your Dallas partner when you can send the kid to grandparents for a while or something?
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Pretty much like that...grandparents are local, and more than willing for son to visit...or when Dallas comes to Chicago, son visits grandparents then, too. BTW, I'm Robert, spouse is Samantha..."Sam"...and Dallas friend is Sean.
 
aarbee said:
Pretty much like that...grandparents are local, and more than willing for son to visit...or when Dallas comes to Chicago, son visits grandparents then, too. BTW, I'm Robert, spouse is Samantha..."Sam"...and Dallas friend is Sean.
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Most people here choose nicknames for themselves, their partners and their children. It's fine to protect your anonymity. I can edit and change the names if you give me the nicknames you'd prefer.

At first I thought, of course their child isn't involved in their adult sexual relationship! Good grief! Now I see you mean he doesn't know about the nature of the friendship. Whew.

Welcome to the group. If you have any questions or issues, feel free to start a thread in the Relationships section.

Check our resource list here for more info about polyamory/ENM.

 
Magdlyn said:
Most people here choose nicknames for themselves, their partners and their children. It's fine to protect your anonymity. I can edit and change the names if you give me the nicknames you'd prefer.

At first I thought, of course their child isn't involved in their adult sexual relationship! Good grief! Now I see you mean he doesn't know about the nature of the friendship. Whew.

Welcome to the group. If you have any questions or issues, feel free to start a thread in the Relationships section.

Check our resource list here for more info about polyamory/ENM.

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Thanks…those are pseudos. Just thought it’d be convenient to have names to refer to with questions & comments.
 
Sounds like you, Sam and Sean are in a good groove. Ever hope he moves closer?
 
Not really…works best this way. Sam has always liked a certain element of “adventure” in sex, Sean accommodates that, and it’s best to keep that a good distance from home! Sam’s persona here is prim & proper.
 
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