OKC in the house?

I'm FUNK2LOPEZ on OKC. I find it easier to use the same username for everything I can. I'm not on much since my computer is broke again and I'm using other peoples computers to just get online to catch up with everything. :(
 
We are on OKC

She is Deadcalm and I am me. uh... Same display name.

I keep coming back the same thought that maybe the internet thing is not correct for me. OKC just doesn't have many real married women on it looking for poly relationships. Is there a dating site that is best suited for this experience? I believe women on these sites have it easier... but my lover disagrees with me (as she is constantly chatting with all sorts of guys). She is only into Marines for the most part but she flirts with everyone. I have met one girl, and she is totally wicked. But we are still figuring out weather we are friends or more. I haven't heard from her in a day so I am a little worried. But it's ok. I can be patient.

See ya
 
I joined up a couple weeks ago, forgot about it, went back in and filled it all out, played with it, and messaged Ceoli tonight because I can't sleep, lol. Ceoli you haz stalkage. :p
 
We are there, same handle. We have links to our individual OKC profiles embedded in the LuvNWonder profile. It's been good.
 
LuvNWonder said:
Come to think of it, we would love feedback on the profiles. Not certain how they come across to others.
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I think all three are good... and I've chatted with "him" before.:)
 
Thank you Foxflame. Him here.

I hope we get the point across that the caring relationship is the most important thing, while also covering further details of interest. Thanks again for feedback.

Brian
 
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Hi, I just joined here today but have been on okc since January, same name, Magdlyn. Its been great for me, after coming out of a looong stifling marriage. I needed to see what's out there. I met a wonderful woman 2 wks after joining and we've been together ever since. I've also been hit on (or approached in a polite way) dozens of times by men of all ages, and one transwoman (besides my SO)... and dated um, about 10. Yes, Ive played the slut. It's been fun and educational too!
 
Okc

I am OKC as Darksaber_30 but I think my profile stinks. I am going to have my wife write a new one.(I am bad at spelling and Grammar.)
 
so I just went through this whole thread and checked out every single one of you... it made me happy to see all the faces to the names. Now I guess you all can see who I am if you figure out what my name is on there!!! Heh. Shouldn't be too hard.
 
redpepper said:
so I just went through this whole thread and checked out every single one of you... it made me happy to see all the faces to the names. Now I guess you all can see who I am if you figure out what my name is on there!!! Heh. Shouldn't be too hard.
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Red...! You're cute.
 
We're on there too. We love taking the tests and answering those questions, but wish they'd filter matches instead of the % enemy thing, which hasn't been very accurate for us. We've answered hundreds of questions, but it doesn't seem to make our matches any more compatible. I hate having to read every single match profile, looking for dealbreakers, if they're not even remotely compatible to start. Might as well just look randomly. We've tried a lot of the other dating sites, and each one has its good & bad points.

That said, OKC is still the best place we've ever seen for meeting poly folks. Long ago, it was Adult Friend Finder, but these days most of the profiles on that site are fake (as we have discovered). :(
 
Our biggest issue is that the matches in Alaska are VERY minimal. I get frustrated that my profile specifically says I'm looking for WOMEN but it always sends me MEN in my "quiver" (WTF?). It's moot-as I only delete them anyway-but still what's the point of specifying if it won't pay attention anyway?
And there are VERY few ANY kind of folk in Alaska that I can find-poly or otherwise. :(
 
LovingRadiance said:
Our biggest issue is that the matches in Alaska are VERY minimal. I get frustrated that my profile specifically says I'm looking for WOMEN but it always sends me MEN in my "quiver" (WTF?). It's moot-as I only delete them anyway-but still what's the point of specifying if it won't pay attention anyway?
And there are VERY few ANY kind of folk in Alaska that I can find-poly or otherwise. :(
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Sounds like you need to change your settings. :) I get only women in my quiver when I have my settings changed.
 
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