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Hi friends,
Me and my wife - she asked to have fun only since March of this year. We have been together for 25 years am 45, shes 41. So I set some ground rules. I told her, "you need to tell me anything. Anything that happens to you sexually or even just texting, I want to know it ALL no excuses!"
I was clear she has not been with anyone yet...but she likes this guy that is 25 years of age...according to her guy looks like a nerd! Looks innocent so she told me her fantasies with him that she wants to take control in bed and that she can't wait to see how desperate he is with her in bed.
So while talking to her she's like, "are you sure you want to know it all cause I don't want hurt you!"
That's stupid so words can hurt [more] than her actions? She's stupid I swear, I clarify.
So I put a recorded device in her car and when she's at work she chats with a female friend so I was able to record the whole thing, nf this is the actual words I heard. Remember she has not had anything yet not even have gone out with him. So starts like this...
THE FRIEND ARE YOU OVER IT ARE YOU OVER IT ? HOW LONG HAS IT BEEN ?
WIFE APRIL
THE FRIEND OH IT WAS RECENT THEN
WIFE, I DONT THINK I AM GOING TO GET OVER IT
FRIEND YES YOU ARE, YOU JUST DON'T WANT TO LET HIM GO
WIFE ITS GOING TO BE HARD
FRIEND JUST FIND ANOTHER PENIS THAT ITS GOOD
WIFE I DON'T KNOW HE CHANGED MY LIFE
FRIEND IN A GOOD WAY OR BAD WAY?
WIFE BOTH
FRIEND BESIDES HIS PENIS WHAT ELSE WAS IT THAT YOU LIKE ABOUT HIM?
THAT WAS THE WHOLE THING I COULD HEAR..TO ME IT SOUNDS LIKE SHE DID SOMETHING, RIGHT ??? I CONFRONT HER ... she says nothing happened, that she's meant all of that in a crush type of way and she sticks to the story...she never told me this! Never. If it wasn't for this recording I would never found out...is this a bad start?? Friends, what do you think about her, is she having feelings???? Already without even going out yet its a weird conversation.
Hi friends,
Me and my wife - she asked to have fun only since March of this year. We have been together for 25 years am 45, shes 41. So I set some ground rules. I told her, "you need to tell me anything. Anything that happens to you sexually or even just texting, I want to know it ALL no excuses!"
I was clear she has not been with anyone yet...but she likes this guy that is 25 years of age...according to her guy looks like a nerd! Looks innocent so she told me her fantasies with him that she wants to take control in bed and that she can't wait to see how desperate he is with her in bed.
So while talking to her she's like, "are you sure you want to know it all cause I don't want hurt you!"
That's stupid so words can hurt [more] than her actions? She's stupid I swear, I clarify.
So I put a recorded device in her car and when she's at work she chats with a female friend so I was able to record the whole thing, nf this is the actual words I heard. Remember she has not had anything yet not even have gone out with him. So starts like this...
THE FRIEND ARE YOU OVER IT ARE YOU OVER IT ? HOW LONG HAS IT BEEN ?
WIFE APRIL
THE FRIEND OH IT WAS RECENT THEN
WIFE, I DONT THINK I AM GOING TO GET OVER IT
FRIEND YES YOU ARE, YOU JUST DON'T WANT TO LET HIM GO
WIFE ITS GOING TO BE HARD
FRIEND JUST FIND ANOTHER PENIS THAT ITS GOOD
WIFE I DON'T KNOW HE CHANGED MY LIFE
FRIEND IN A GOOD WAY OR BAD WAY?
WIFE BOTH
FRIEND BESIDES HIS PENIS WHAT ELSE WAS IT THAT YOU LIKE ABOUT HIM?
THAT WAS THE WHOLE THING I COULD HEAR..TO ME IT SOUNDS LIKE SHE DID SOMETHING, RIGHT ??? I CONFRONT HER ... she says nothing happened, that she's meant all of that in a crush type of way and she sticks to the story...she never told me this! Never. If it wasn't for this recording I would never found out...is this a bad start?? Friends, what do you think about her, is she having feelings???? Already without even going out yet its a weird conversation.
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