The only other option is Apple going back to Banana's house that is laden with emotional baggage from an abusive marriage and a deceased daughter. I volunteered to take the couch, so they could stay together in a safe place and comforting place.Then NO.
Yes, we can add on to the house, and we have actually talked about adding, renovating, and/or adding a garage with a guest room/bathroom on top. I cleared it all and we could do a lot.Banana and her kid(s) cannot move in. When you don't even have a bedroom of your own yet and are on the couch.
Why add to the pressure cooker?
So no moving in til this remodel is done and you can have your own bathroom/bedroom then.
Given that there's all this land... can the house be added on to?
Can there be two cottages added so you have your own space and Banana has their own space?
So you are living together on the same land but not all on top of each other?
Good advice.Glad that resonated. It doesn't have to be hard. The FEELINGS might feel tough. But the actions seem straightforward. Each dyad needs to figure out what it is now in THIS new chapter of life.
I encourage you to think about your own health and well being then.