HerbeMannABg
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Thank you everyone for the responses. You all really help give me some insight.
Let me clarify one thing. Group sex is something I have an interest in. We're both sub. We've both expressed an interest in playing out some fantasies together. But maybe, as some of you have suggested, this isn't necessarily the way to prepare myself for her seeing someone on her own.
I also think a few of you are right, in that maybe I'm trying to make too many decisions for her. She's just such an amazing girl, so unbelievably caring, and loves me so much that I fear she would do anything for me, including sacrificing her own happiness. I care about her and I care about her compromising herself for me. I fear she does it far more than she lets on.
But you're still right. She is an adult and a damn smart one too. Don't fuck with a girl with a 200 IQ. She can make her own decisions. It's not that I don't trust her, it's exactly the opposite, rather that we all do stupid things when we're in love sometimes, often to our detriment, and I couldn't help but worry that, as her S/O, maybe it's my responsibility to help her from making a mistake. But it's easy for me to worry too much and it's easy for me to want to control too much, so you've probably got a point.
Thank you all,
A
Thank you everyone for the responses. You all really help give me some insight.
Let me clarify one thing. Group sex is something I have an interest in. We're both sub. We've both expressed an interest in playing out some fantasies together. But maybe, as some of you have suggested, this isn't necessarily the way to prepare myself for her seeing someone on her own.
I also think a few of you are right, in that maybe I'm trying to make too many decisions for her. She's just such an amazing girl, so unbelievably caring, and loves me so much that I fear she would do anything for me, including sacrificing her own happiness. I care about her and I care about her compromising herself for me. I fear she does it far more than she lets on.
But you're still right. She is an adult and a damn smart one too. Don't fuck with a girl with a 200 IQ. She can make her own decisions. It's not that I don't trust her, it's exactly the opposite, rather that we all do stupid things when we're in love sometimes, often to our detriment, and I couldn't help but worry that, as her S/O, maybe it's my responsibility to help her from making a mistake. But it's easy for me to worry too much and it's easy for me to want to control too much, so you've probably got a point.
Thank you all,
A