Re-introduction after years away

IndieSolo

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Hey everybody, I figured I should say hello here in the Introductions forum to re-introduce myself after a very long hiatus. So, yeah, I'm back. I first joined here as nycindie way back in 2010. For a good while, I was even a moderator here (mostly zapping spam). Before yesterday, the last post I made was in 2017. I have lurked here on and off since then, but when I decided to rejoin the fold and participate here again, I changed my handle to IndieSolo. I'm no longer in NYC, so I dropped that part of my username.

I experienced a few rough and traumatic years before moving out of the big city to a small New England town. I basically needed to clean the slate and start over. I came here because I was somewhat familiar with the area from past vacations, and I was acquainted with a few people here. Eventually I realized that town wasn't right for me, so I moved again about 18 months ago to a slightly larger town in a more populated area, and I am still getting to know my way around. There's a lot more to do here (and more opportunities to socialize) than where I was, which I appreciate very much.

My relocation out of NYC has been mostly a very positive thing, but also a huge adjustment. I am currently not romantically involved with anyone, and only recently started to feel ready to slowly put myself out there to meet people and see if anything clicks. Some days I feel like I'm in a hurry to get things going, but most of the time I am cautious and feel the need to go very slowly.

Anyway, hi again, poly peeps!
 
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Welcome back, Indie! Really glad to see you here again, especially since you give such excellent replies in Poly Relationships Corner.

I hope you find this place both a familiar comfort and one where some of the discourses have moved with the times.

Sounds like an eventful few years and I'm glad to hear you've found somewhere to live that's suiting you better now.
 
Oh hi! I do remember you, of course! Only I never knew your first letters stood for NewYorkCity anyway :D
 
Great to see you again! I joined back in 2010 when I was really struggling, and your voice here was very inspiring for my journey at the time.
 
Hello IndieSolo,

Welcome back to the forum. It sounds like you have had some eventful years, in reaching the point where you are now. We have some new members, but quite a few of the older members are still active, as you've no doubt noticed. Anyway I hope your new experience here is an enjoyable one, you have already posted some impressive posts since returning.

Regards,
Kevin T.
 
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