Just someone who read up on polyamory across many sites but really just hope for outside view of things.
Please no flaming :'( I really just want to inquire and all.
Not sure if me and my partner would be suitable for polyamory. We have excellent communications and communicate our needs well. We don't really have jealousy present even when it comes to having experience with others while being together. We revel in being perfect for each other currently but at the same time we feel like we still have the potential for polyamory. We both enjoy being mostly monogamy where it's all the time together and etc (with a sprinkle of consensual nonmonogamy here and there that had brought up no conflict at all with both of us feeling secure about each other) so like. Is it wiser for us to simply be non-monogamy instead of trying polyamory? We both find the though of showering another with affection, planning dinners, dates, holiday celebration , making another feel special being quite appealing. Although we are also a kinky pair that will explore into the kink side a lot more in the future. But we aren't seeking just to spice anything up, really, we know we can do that ourselves and using others for just that is meh.
We seem to love what monogamy brings but at the same time we also seem to have the capacity for non-monogamy, but am concern if we do have the capacity for polyamory because we don't want to cause any trouble.
Again, I'm sincerely just inquiring, please don't flame me for this. I'm sorry if what I wrote offended anyone or enraged anyone. I'm really just asking.
Thanks for reading. ;-;
Please no flaming :'( I really just want to inquire and all.
Not sure if me and my partner would be suitable for polyamory. We have excellent communications and communicate our needs well. We don't really have jealousy present even when it comes to having experience with others while being together. We revel in being perfect for each other currently but at the same time we feel like we still have the potential for polyamory. We both enjoy being mostly monogamy where it's all the time together and etc (with a sprinkle of consensual nonmonogamy here and there that had brought up no conflict at all with both of us feeling secure about each other) so like. Is it wiser for us to simply be non-monogamy instead of trying polyamory? We both find the though of showering another with affection, planning dinners, dates, holiday celebration , making another feel special being quite appealing. Although we are also a kinky pair that will explore into the kink side a lot more in the future. But we aren't seeking just to spice anything up, really, we know we can do that ourselves and using others for just that is meh.
We seem to love what monogamy brings but at the same time we also seem to have the capacity for non-monogamy, but am concern if we do have the capacity for polyamory because we don't want to cause any trouble.
Again, I'm sincerely just inquiring, please don't flame me for this. I'm sorry if what I wrote offended anyone or enraged anyone. I'm really just asking.
Thanks for reading. ;-;