Reverie
Active member
Not specific to poly relationships, but since this forum is more frank about sex than most, I'm bringing it here.
I AM SO SHY ABOUT DESCRIBING SEX THINGS!
I mean, obviously I can think of things that I want to DO—I’m not just operating on autopilot or something when I’m having sexytimes with someone. And I'll DO almost anything. And I’m verbose to a fault when it comes to describing literally anything else.
But verbalizing it?
It is like there is this skill that is apparently a useful skill because it keeps coming up, and it seems like it wouldn’t be that hard but it is. Other people can say literally anything to me and my cheeks remain cool like a seasoned whore’s, but the minute I’m the one who has to come up with something to say myself, I blush until my very SCALP begins to burn and try to crawl off my skull.
So. Brain-hack me! How do I learn to sext and talk dirty and stuff without feeling like I want to die of shyness?
I AM SO SHY ABOUT DESCRIBING SEX THINGS!
I mean, obviously I can think of things that I want to DO—I’m not just operating on autopilot or something when I’m having sexytimes with someone. And I'll DO almost anything. And I’m verbose to a fault when it comes to describing literally anything else.
But verbalizing it?
It is like there is this skill that is apparently a useful skill because it keeps coming up, and it seems like it wouldn’t be that hard but it is. Other people can say literally anything to me and my cheeks remain cool like a seasoned whore’s, but the minute I’m the one who has to come up with something to say myself, I blush until my very SCALP begins to burn and try to crawl off my skull.
So. Brain-hack me! How do I learn to sext and talk dirty and stuff without feeling like I want to die of shyness?