Switch Navigating Mono-Poly Relationships

[Geeky_Brat]

Hi. I'm trying to think of the best way to introduce myself and my situation.

I'm a bratty switch that's been in the kink scene for almost 15 years. I've been with my main partner for 16 years. We found the kink scene together and started exploring more when he expressed his interest in cuckolding. I've never enjoyed casual sex so we've done cuckolding as mono poly partners. I currently live in a different country than my cuck due to my career, which can be hard sometimes. I've been in a relationship with my Dominate partner for just over a year now and he lives local to me.

As I'm trying to navigate difficulties I'm having in each of these relationships, I found this site and thought I'd join. Hopefully I can find some advice on how to strengthen my relationships, fight some of my own personal demons, and become a better partner.

 

[Evie]

Hi and welcome! Feel free to post questions on the Poly Relationships Corner sub forum, that is the space held specifically for advice. Those sound like two really important relationships in your life and I hope we can help you out with what you need.

Evie

 

[Magdlyn]

Hi. I'm trying to think of the best way to introduce myself and my situation.

I'm a bratty switch that's been in the kink scene for almost 15 years. I've been with my main partner for 16 years. We found the kink scene together and started exploring more when he expressed his interest in cuckolding. I've never enjoyed casual sex, so we've done cuckolding as mono/poly partners. I currently live in a different country than my cuck due to my career, which can be hard sometimes. I've been in a relationship with my dominant partner for just over a year now and he lives local to me.

As I was trying to navigate the difficulties I'm having in each of these relationships, I found this site and thought I'd join. Hopefully I can find some advice on how to strengthen my relationships, fight some of my own personal demons, and become a better partner.

When you start your new thread, consider putting "cuckolding" in the title. We've had a few people in those kinds of relationships popping in lately, so you might get their attention. Also, you could search that term to find their threads.

We also recommend the website Fetlife for kink-related questions. Cuckolding and polyamory link up in ways most people here may not have experienced, since it's kind of a niche interest.

 

[kdt26417]

Greetings Geeky_Brat,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

You can definitely get help here on how to strengthen your relationships, I recommend you post in Poly Relationships Corner, where you can get the most (and best variety of) input and advice. Hang in there and good luck.

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"

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