Here is our highly recommended reading list, along with a podcast.Hi, I'm linzy. Me and my husband have been married for 4 years and recently decided we want a girlfriend. We aren't sure where to start, so any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Thank youHere is our highly recommended reading list, along with a podcast.
Most people start with one of the books, especially Polysecure and Opening Up. I recommend you read this article:
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So, someone called you a Unicorn Hunter?
This article is a long, technical discussion of what being a "Unicorn Hunter" means, what's wrong with it, and how people in such a situation can try to avoid the negative stereotypes associated with such behavior and get the things that they are ultimately looking for. It is written in a…davidlnoble.livejournal.com
And this one:
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Triad or V - What's More Complicated?
I get a lot of people new to polyamory insisting that they must date together, or meet people together, because it "will be less complicated." I see this in comments on social media, on dating app profiles, on couple's profiles on social media (that black and red one that starts with an F...www.readyforpolyamory.com
Thank you so much you have been very helpfulGreetings Linzy,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.
You might want to try a poly-friendly dating site/app, such as Feeld or OKCupid. Also you may want to look for a local poly group in your area, google "Georgia polyamory" and/or "polyamory" with the name of the major city closest to you. Sometimes you just have to get out there, and meet people in person, you know? You can tell them you're poly, and that can actually be a conversation starter. Anyway I hope you'll spend some time exploring Polyamory.com, read some of our posts and let us know if any more questions arise for you! Good luck in your search.
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"
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