My wife and I have ventured in the talks of having a third partner. Unanimously agreed it would need to be a female partner. Neither one of us know how to go about it. How to begin navigating and putting our needs into action. We have been out of the dating world for years now and dont know how to overcome the hurdle of talking to another female or even informing her of our intentions. And for that matter where to find like minded peaple. Any advice would be appreciated
Wife and I throwing around an idea!!
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Hi and welcome.
What you want is often very hard to achieve since the idea that one person will gel equally with both of you is pretty rare. But we have a long list of resources here:
Thread 'Most commonly cited articles and books master thread' https://polyamory.com/threads/most-commonly-cited-articles-and-books-master-thread.155304/
What you want is often very hard to achieve since the idea that one person will gel equally with both of you is pretty rare. But we have a long list of resources here:
Thread 'Most commonly cited articles and books master thread' https://polyamory.com/threads/most-commonly-cited-articles-and-books-master-thread.155304/
From the resources list I would suggest
medium.com
and
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Hello Untamed,
Sounds like you've got something really wild brewing there. You might try Feeld or OKCupid, even FetLife just for getting to know people who are open-minded. Also learn as much about open/poly as you can, Polyamory.com is a good place to learn.
Regards,
Kevin T.
Sounds like you've got something really wild brewing there. You might try Feeld or OKCupid, even FetLife just for getting to know people who are open-minded. Also learn as much about open/poly as you can, Polyamory.com is a good place to learn.
Regards,
Kevin T.