madcouple25uk
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me and my girlfriend both 25 uk have a fantasy about me watching her with another man. Its taboo socan't talk to family and friends about it. Come here to talk to like minded people
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madcouple25uk
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Thanks for your reply silly question what diff between fantasy and relationship model
This idea of you watching your gf with another man is known in kink circles as cuckolding. Polyamory is about loving multiple people. It's not about group sex, exhibitionism, humiliation or voyeurism (aspects of cuckolding). While poly people may have interest in those areas, our forum is dedicated to discussing polyamory topics, not fetishes. Not because they are taboo, but just because they are off topic. That's why Fetlife's discussion boards might suit you better.
Sexual fantasy - you have talked between yourselves about inviting another guy into your 'bedroom' to have sex with your girlfriend, and this is sexually arousing to you.
Relationship model - relationships extend far beyond the literal or metaphorical bedroom. Monogamy is the default and you could say it looks like this o--o (two people connected with one line). In polyamory, it may look like this o--o--o (often called V) where one person is connected to two people. That concept can expand to o--o--o--o or more, in a N, W or longer zigzag. Or sometimes one person is connected to three (or more) other people, creating a star shape anywhere along that zigzag, and it may branch off in other directions, too. There are also triangle relationship models, which we usually call triads, although GenZ may say throuple.
Ignore the last few posts on this thread and you could get a feel for poly relationship models https://polyamory.com/threads/how-many-people-in-your-whole-polycule.156839/
At polyamory.com, we tend to discuss how to effectively build and maintain a non-monogamous relationship model, with all the feelings that come along with loving multiple people or being in a relationship with someone who loves other people, too.
Relationship model - relationships extend far beyond the literal or metaphorical bedroom. Monogamy is the default and you could say it looks like this o--o (two people connected with one line). In polyamory, it may look like this o--o--o (often called V) where one person is connected to two people. That concept can expand to o--o--o--o or more, in a N, W or longer zigzag. Or sometimes one person is connected to three (or more) other people, creating a star shape anywhere along that zigzag, and it may branch off in other directions, too. There are also triangle relationship models, which we usually call triads, although GenZ may say throuple.
Ignore the last few posts on this thread and you could get a feel for poly relationship models https://polyamory.com/threads/how-many-people-in-your-whole-polycule.156839/
At polyamory.com, we tend to discuss how to effectively build and maintain a non-monogamous relationship model, with all the feelings that come along with loving multiple people or being in a relationship with someone who loves other people, too.
madcouple25uk
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Thanks for your replys guys but could something like this start off as a bit of fun and develop tho?
Yes, it can certainly start as just a fun sexual romp and turn into the woman falling in love with her new person and vice versa. And sometimes cucks (that would be you) are bi, and get more involved than just watching, and have some sexual interaction with the new guy (during threesome sex) and/or develop feelings for him. Our bodies are hormonally designed to associate sex and love. Some people can seem to separate the two, but most can't.
Hello madcouple25uk,
There is nothing wrong with having a fantasy, and it can be ethically fulfilled as long as there is mutual consent between all of the participants. I hope you have good luck in your search, and I hope you are finding the like-minded people on this forum, that you were hoping to find.
Regards,
Kevin T.
There is nothing wrong with having a fantasy, and it can be ethically fulfilled as long as there is mutual consent between all of the participants. I hope you have good luck in your search, and I hope you are finding the like-minded people on this forum, that you were hoping to find.
Regards,
Kevin T.