So I would like your opinion on this situation. First I've been poly for 10 years so I do have some poly experience.
There is this guy I've known for 6 years through work. I'm attracted to him and I think it's reciprocal. Of course I would like to get to know him more and see where it could lead to and being poly is very well possible for me. If I knew he were poly or single I would pursue this without thinking twice but he is married. We never know, he could be poly but I'm thinking probably not. I don't think he knows I'm poly.
I don't know how things are with his wife, if he is happily married or not, he hasn't said anything pointing towards one or the other. He is 48 and have been with his wife since highschool. They have 4 kids, they had them at a very young age so the kids are all grown up and gone from the house.
It's totally against my values to start dating someone cheating on his wife. If I pursue trying to get to know him more, I have no intention on going further than chatting without his wife being aware of the whole thing. As a start, me being poly will come out for sure.
To you, at this point, would you consider this ethical (or unethical) to encourage flirting, texting maybe even meeting somewhere for chatting (following covid rules of course)?
There is this guy I've known for 6 years through work. I'm attracted to him and I think it's reciprocal. Of course I would like to get to know him more and see where it could lead to and being poly is very well possible for me. If I knew he were poly or single I would pursue this without thinking twice but he is married. We never know, he could be poly but I'm thinking probably not. I don't think he knows I'm poly.
I don't know how things are with his wife, if he is happily married or not, he hasn't said anything pointing towards one or the other. He is 48 and have been with his wife since highschool. They have 4 kids, they had them at a very young age so the kids are all grown up and gone from the house.
It's totally against my values to start dating someone cheating on his wife. If I pursue trying to get to know him more, I have no intention on going further than chatting without his wife being aware of the whole thing. As a start, me being poly will come out for sure.
To you, at this point, would you consider this ethical (or unethical) to encourage flirting, texting maybe even meeting somewhere for chatting (following covid rules of course)?