The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

I received a creepy pm on here today from a female who has no post history offering to "make me happy no man guaranteed".

I am very heterosexual and have no interest in women physically what so ever.
 
Dagferi, I just sent you a PM after reading your post.


As for me, how I am doing is not so great. A good friend of mine passed away this week and that is just one out of four things that went majorly wrong within a span of ten days. I can't get into details about everything else, but it is all impacting my life right now and it's overwhelming. Among all this stuff happening, I did meet someone who is pretty fantastic and will see him again, but it's hard to get excited with so much crappiness going on. He seems like such a perfect match, to become a lover, but I don't want to get into fantasies or bring him down with my shitty life as it is at the moment. And I am missing my friend who died. Right now it sucks to be me.
 
Sorry to hear it's been so very rough for you lately, Nycindie.
 
Sorry to hear about these bad days for people :(, I hope things change and things are able to get a little bit better or at least things stop piling up.

I am feeling a bit confused lately, have a new crush (I haven't crushed since high school) on a friend that lives nearish me, he is also polyamorous but I don't know if he has any interest in me, hopefully things will turn out good though! :eek: :)
 
So sorry for your loss of your friend, nycindie. And having that compounded with the rest of the things going on... I just hope you have all the support you need.

And good luck with new guy once things calm down.


I just have a cold to rival a man-cold.
 
I take each day as it comes. It's a ride on uneven ground. Some days I've been low-level depressed, other days been okay, other days been numb. Today I feel pretty good. I just deleted my Facebook account, which feels great, and I'm working on a project at home which is long overdue and going slowly but well.

I have a lot of important shit to take care of, some of which I'd been procrastinating about, and it's just time to stop avoiding things. I am also looking forward to October when the guy I met in the summer will be back in town, so I need to get things done now.
 
Busy month ahead

Looking forward to this month. I will have most weekends filled with events for my soapmaking business to make money.

This upcoming weekend is the first overnight, full weekend medieval event my mom is going to. There will be multiple 20 foot diameter yurts for people to stay in. This is her getting out of her comfort zone & being social since my father passed 3 yrs ago. She needs a hobby for herself. So I feel proud & excited.
 
Weekend on a house boat coming up.
The last night out of town ( as at a lover's house ) was weeks ago.
Travel makes me happy :)
Slowly watching season 1 of The Expanse.
 
A house centipede? That monstrosity with like 100 spiderlike legs that runs like lightning? [shudder]
 
After a mini-whirlwind of travel I am home. And now Dude and MrS are both home as well. We have an indefinite house-guest that I am fine with. Life is good!
 
I'm getting surgery on my wrist on Tuesday to try to repair an injury I got at work on April 21. I'm anxious about it, I'm sure mostly because I've never had surgery or been under general anesthesia, so it's all anxiety producing because I don't really know completely what to expect. I'm also anxious because we won't know how much damage there is to repair (other than minor carpel tunnel syndrome diagnosed by an EMG) until my orthopedic hand specialist checks it all out with a scope at the beginning of the surgery, which means I won't know until I come out of sedation. The mri shows a tear in the cartilage that forms a false joint on the pinky side but doesn’t show enough detail to know how bad it is. Good thoughts and vibes would be much appreciated on Tuesday!
 
Sending you thoughts and good vibes as requested. I would be scared too, I hate the thought of surgery that requires more than a local anesthetic.
 
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