KitCatBar
New member
Hello! I am choosing to stay anonymous on here, in case I need to ask for advice about my partners (which I already have haha). I am, however, terrible at forums. I am in my early thirties, and don't understand how time flew to get me to that point.
That being said, I have three partners, who I will refer to as Skyler (spouse), Jenny (partner), and Nicole (girlfriend). I have known all of them for over a decade, with relationship lengths of 11, 3, and 5 years respectively. Skyler, Jenny, and I are a triad. Jenny has another partner, who has other partners, etc. Nicole and I are girlfriends. Nicole has other partners, who have another partner, etc. I have a fantastic polycule and I are good friends with all my metamours.
On the one hand I feel like I *just* got in to the world of poly... But not really at all, no, it's not new. I somehow still have new relationship energy with all my partners, but we've settled in to some routines too. My relationships haven't been magically perfect, but we always talk about things and come up with solutions, even if it takes a few days. Overall, I'm really happy. So my relationship advice to new poly peeps is that being yourself and allowing yourself to love who you do is truly wonderful.
By the way, milk tea KitKats are really good too.
That being said, I have three partners, who I will refer to as Skyler (spouse), Jenny (partner), and Nicole (girlfriend). I have known all of them for over a decade, with relationship lengths of 11, 3, and 5 years respectively. Skyler, Jenny, and I are a triad. Jenny has another partner, who has other partners, etc. Nicole and I are girlfriends. Nicole has other partners, who have another partner, etc. I have a fantastic polycule and I are good friends with all my metamours.
On the one hand I feel like I *just* got in to the world of poly... But not really at all, no, it's not new. I somehow still have new relationship energy with all my partners, but we've settled in to some routines too. My relationships haven't been magically perfect, but we always talk about things and come up with solutions, even if it takes a few days. Overall, I'm really happy. So my relationship advice to new poly peeps is that being yourself and allowing yourself to love who you do is truly wonderful.
By the way, milk tea KitKats are really good too.