Okay so where do begin...
I met my current partner at work a few years prior before we actually started dating. She was engaged and in a open relationship. She's poly and her hubby is mono but was open to the idea of being poly. So they get hitched and my partner and kind of connected again not long ago.
Even this was a process to be gentle because he thought and felt like with marriage that she should change who she is and not be poly. He's struggling with the concept of being married and and having his wife be poly and date me.
I guess the point of this is. I feel like I'm destroying a marriage and hurting him. But at the same time I want us and us to be happy and which we are but it comes with a cost because I constantly feel guilty about being with his wife. I love her and her I. Has anyone delt with a jealous or someone who really wasn't open to the idea of them being open and now he's hurting...
I just feel bad and hate that I feel this way.
I met my current partner at work a few years prior before we actually started dating. She was engaged and in a open relationship. She's poly and her hubby is mono but was open to the idea of being poly. So they get hitched and my partner and kind of connected again not long ago.
Even this was a process to be gentle because he thought and felt like with marriage that she should change who she is and not be poly. He's struggling with the concept of being married and and having his wife be poly and date me.
I guess the point of this is. I feel like I'm destroying a marriage and hurting him. But at the same time I want us and us to be happy and which we are but it comes with a cost because I constantly feel guilty about being with his wife. I love her and her I. Has anyone delt with a jealous or someone who really wasn't open to the idea of them being open and now he's hurting...
I just feel bad and hate that I feel this way.