Hi everyone, awesome forum!
My name is Chris and my wife is Nic, we've been together for 14 years, married 9 years. I've always joked about being with other women and stuff and that has always fallen on deaf ears. Normal relationship stuff.
After nearly two decades of showing no interest my wife slowly started falling for a female coworker. She has no real interest in sex with her (maybe down the road or here and there) but wants an emotional girlfriend type relationship with her. I encouraged her to try and she would often involve me in their plans. I also started to fall for her. We would fantasize together about this third individual. Our relationship became stronger and our love grew.
Finally, after endless conversations. My wife approached her coworker to basically be in a relationship with both of us but a physical relationship with me.
Her coworker said that she couldn't handle the sharing aspect.
Clearly we are heart broken.
Turns out we are a polyamorous couple looking to form a triad with a unicorn. We didn't know any of those words 24 hours ago lol.
And here we go I guess ...
My name is Chris and my wife is Nic, we've been together for 14 years, married 9 years. I've always joked about being with other women and stuff and that has always fallen on deaf ears. Normal relationship stuff.
After nearly two decades of showing no interest my wife slowly started falling for a female coworker. She has no real interest in sex with her (maybe down the road or here and there) but wants an emotional girlfriend type relationship with her. I encouraged her to try and she would often involve me in their plans. I also started to fall for her. We would fantasize together about this third individual. Our relationship became stronger and our love grew.
Finally, after endless conversations. My wife approached her coworker to basically be in a relationship with both of us but a physical relationship with me.
Her coworker said that she couldn't handle the sharing aspect.
Clearly we are heart broken.
Turns out we are a polyamorous couple looking to form a triad with a unicorn. We didn't know any of those words 24 hours ago lol.
And here we go I guess ...