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JustAShyGuy

New member
Hi everyone!

I'm a nerdy/geeky guy, 27, bisexual.

I'm pretty new to the whole poly/ENM thing. My partner and I are both exploring it, but have decided to date seperately.

Any tips on where to go, what to look for, stuff like that would be super appreciated!
 

3908

Member
welcome to the forum!
there are other more knowledgeable members that will be around to offer assistance.
 

Magdlyn

Well-known member
Hi everyone!

I'm a nerdy/geeky guy, 27, bisexual.

I'm pretty new to the whole poly/ENM thing. My partner and I are both exploring it, but have decided to date seperately.

Any tips on where to go, what to look for, stuff like that would be super appreciated!
Welcome, shyguy. Good for you. Dating separately is the best way to go.

As for starting to date, doing it during the pandemic is not a great idea, since you'd have to mask up and social distance on a date, and that's not very fun. Hopefully in a few months, things will get easier.

OK Cupid used to be a good place for online dating, but they changed their format a couple years ago, and it's not as user-friendly. It's worth a try.

Another good way to meet people is to take up a few new hobbies and meet people through hobby groups online or irl. That way, you know you have some things in common right off the bat.

Tinder is popular, but it seems to be more for hookups than real relationships.
 

kdt26417

Official Greeter
Greetings JustAShyGuy,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.
Here are some tips of where to go, and what to look for, as you begin your poly journey:
If any of the above raises questions for you, just let us know.
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter" :)

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