Hotwife to poly

I'm so sorry this happened to you, man. I have to admit I'm in a similar situation except I'm the other guy. My girlfriend was forced to break up with me after her husband learned we were in love and developed feelings after a "swinger/threesome" relationship started. He didn't want "feelings" to get involved but they did. We also had a secret WhatsApp conversation we shared (per her request) and since our break up, we've seen one another a few times. Not sexually, but to check in and such. It's been very hard for us both to break it off. They're back to swinging and she's working to commit to distance between us.

Again, I'm so sorry this happened to you. I truly am. I just wanted to give a different perspective as I understand how difficult it is to just "cut it off." I hope you guys don't judge me here. I just hope to deliver some understanding that "feelings" are somewhat out of our control; especially in a physical, sexual, emotional setting. Good luck and we're here to help.

- B.
 
I'm so sorry this happened to you, man. I have to admit I'm in a similar situation except I'm the other guy. My girlfriend was forced to break up with me after her husband learned we were in love and developed feelings after a "swinger/threesome" relationship started. He didn't want "feelings" to get involved but they did. We also had a secret WhatsApp conversation we shared (per her request) and since our break up, we've seen one another a few times. Not sexually, but to check in and such. It's been very hard for us both to break it off. They're back to swinging and she's working to commit to distance between us.

Again, I'm so sorry this happened to you. I truly am. I just wanted to give a different perspective as I understand how difficult it is to just "cut it off." I hope you guys don't judge me here. I just hope to deliver some understanding that "feelings" are somewhat out of our control; especially in a physical, sexual, emotional setting. Good luck and we're here to help.

- B.
I don't judge you.
NRE is so strong. Twelve years ago I broke my monogamous relationship because I could not let go of it (I fell in love before anything really happened, the potential was enough).
 
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