I feel like being a hinge can be a lot to juggle. I'm getting my PhD right now and just maneuvering adult life in general; my goals, dreams, hobbies, making friends, etc. and there are times when having two relationships feels overwhelming. How do hinges out there keep their entire lives from centering around their romantic relationships? I'm finding it hard to make much time for myself, and while I'm a great multitasker and can do that for awhile with no issues, when shit hits the fan in any aspect of my life (as it did this past week when I got sick and had some family shit going on), I feel stretched too thin to handle it well.