Hello everyone. My husband is polyamorous and has had relationships throughout our marriage. I've had no worries or problems with any of his partners because he always shared anything he was feeling with me. This new one that he's talking to, I can tell he has major NRE for and he's starting to dismiss me and the kids. Saying that he isn't able to get to talk to her because he had to "deal" with us. I don't understand how is just being at home doing what we normally do "dealing"with us. We hardly get to see him because he's working all the time away from home and he spends all the time on the phone talking with her and when I ask general questions he snaps at me like I'm accusing him of something. I'm at a loss on what to do. He's clearly happy with his new potential partner (they've only been talking for less than a week) because they have a lot in common and they have talked on the phone having phone sex already (I accidently walked in on him when I was getting something from the room) I was unaware that he was taking on the phone. And when asked about it he lied and said he wasn't having phone sex with her. Him and I got into an argument and he ran to her telling her our business like it's her place to know what goes on in our lives. She doesn't have any interest in getting to know me, why should she know what is said in our argument?