I’m new, need a mentor

Hari Hari

New member
Hi have recently discovered that I am not alone having discovered polyamory . I thoughts I want normal in my feelings. I came across the term and a programme where I realised that this is for me. Now the difficulty is finding like minded people. Im thinking a mentor perhaps to guide me so that I don’t upset people. I want to collect my karma points and be full filled. I am a creative adventurous person working in the public eye so treading carefully. Welcome support and guidance .


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Welcome to the board. Read around our posts. You should gain lots of important information and knowledge. We are a community. Feel free to start a thread in the Relationships section if you have specific questions!


Staff member
It sounds like you're starting from the very beginning.you may like to start with this thread: Thread 'Glossary and Definitions' https://polyamory.com/threads/glossary-and-definitions.1720/

Just like learning about anything, there's a fairly large vocabulary that is quite specific to polyamory and lets us discuss concepts that are outside of mono-normativity.


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Greetings Hari Hari,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

I would be glad to answer any questions you may have, whether it be on this thread, another thread, or via direct messaging. I don't know that I would be the world's greatest mentor, but I'm willing to give it a try. I think you will find lots of like-minded people here, just do some (lots of) reading on our various boards, and post whenever you have a thought to share, or whenever you need some info.

Kevin T., "official greeter" :)


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