Kevin's Hetero MFM Poly-Fi V

Okay wait, I haven't seen the movie Cyrano that you were talking about.
Sounds like an interesting cover of a classic theme. I have put it on my movies-to-see list.
 
1:18 p.m., Wednesday the 5th

We didn't do much for the Fourth, we did have a visit from Brother-Husband's sister and her husband. Brother-Husband and Snowbunny installed a new (cement) step by our back door. That was hard work, so we had pizza delivered (from Domino's) for dinner.
 
4:38 p.m., Thursday the 6th

Not much going on today ... other than lots of chatting with Roxanne which always feels good. And I've been sharing the news with my youngest brother Jim, he is extremely interested in hearing about this new girlfriend of mine.

Unfortunately, Roxanne has come down with an illness. Tonsillitis I guess, her throat hurts a lot, and to put it in her words, swallowing feels like swallowing knives. The doctor gave her an antibiotic, but it will take a few days to kick in and in the meantime, she's having trouble sleeping. Rock and a hard place. It makes me sad.
 
3:44 p.m., Friday the 7th

Roxanne's doctor gave her a note excusing her from work for this next week. That's good. However, her work will not pay her as much for that week. That's not so good.

Not much else to tell you at this time. Other than to mention that BH has been quite sweet about this new relationship. A couple of times now he has asked me how things are with Roxanne. He seems to be excited about her.

He and I watched a Black Mirror episode last night. We've skipped ahead to Season Six (a season we haven't seen yet). That's all I have to tell you for now.
 
3:55 p.m., Saturday the 8th

"Give not that which is holy unto the dogs, neither cast ye your pearls before swine, lest they trample them under their feet, and turn again and rend you."
-- Matthew 7:6​

... which is pretty much what happened to me in the following post ... https://polyamory.com/threads/new-around-here.155487/page-3#post-491847
I was pretty steamed about it at first. I'm getting over it, but I'm still somewhere between disgusted and annoyed. Talk about a circular argument!
 
4:31 p.m., Tuesday the 11th

Today we are having a cleaning lady look at our house, to make sure it isn't so over the top that she wouldn't be willing to clean it. She said our house looks pretty clean, so I guess we must be doing something right. BH just got home, a few minutes ago, so he's now met the cleaning lady.
 
2:31 p.m., Wednesday the 12th

Don't quite know what to tell you today ... I seem to have run out of ideas. Dinner last night was pork roast and sweet potato. I'm not big on sweet potatoes (unless they're all churned up and enhanced with brown sugar and covered with melted marshmallows), but that part was okay. And the roast was good.

I have a trip to Utah starting on (Saturday) the 22nd, including a day-long mountain hike (on Timpanogos). In a way I'm looking forward to it, in another way I'm dreading it. I might be rather scarce here on the forum during that trip. We'll see.

Okay, now that's all I have to tell you ... at this time.
 
12:31 p.m., Thursday the 13th

There's even less for me to tell you today. For dinner last night we had chili (out of a couple of cans), chili happens to be one of my favorites so I was good with that. SB added a microwaved potato to my chili which was a cool bonus, plus we had chopped onions (I think they're called onions -- the long skinny aboveground part of the plant) and cheese on it. Overall, quite an enjoyable dinner.
 
1:34 p.m., Friday the 14th

Last night's dinner was leftover sweet potato and pork roast. Pretty decent. Today, SB has a doctor appointment at 2:45 p.m., which is good because I have a thing of port I'd like to finish off.
 
4:50 p.m., Saturday the 15th

Port finished. Ahhhh, smack smack, so tasty and satisfying.

Ginger had a class last night, so SB didn't get home until about 9:00 p.m.; luckily she brought takeout from Subway for dinner. She brought me a tuna sub. Very nice.

While SB was away, BH and I watched the movie "El Camino" (the continuation from the end of Breaking Bad). No disappointments there, it was an awesome movie, and lived up to its Breaking Bad legacy.

Tonight, we are going to eat out at El Pinto [a rather famous (New?) Mexican place around here]. I'm assuming we'll be joining some friends there, but I don't know, I haven't been following the plans very closely. In any case, I am really looking forward to it.
 
3:13 p.m., Sunday the 16th

Well we had a good time at El Pinto, we met up with Eponine and Jeff (my nickname for her partner). Eponine inquired about Roxanne and I divulged some information, but I'm not repeating that information here because Roxanne isn't ready to be exposed like that so soon.
 
3:15 p.m., Monday the 17th

Nothing exciting to report about yesterday. BH and I did watch another Black Mirror episode. It was good. Today mostly I'm just trying to catch up on my internet things. That and, I've been talking (on Facebook) to Roxanne. The conversation's been a bit too heavy to call it just chat.
 
5:01 p.m., Tuesday the 18th

Last night, SB had Barn Hunt (and Ginger went with her -- Eddie is still recovering from his leg surgery), so dinner was kind of late, but gods be praised, she brought us takeout for dinner (from Jersey Mike's).

My trip to Utah (with its dreaded Timp hike) draws ever nearer. I may not get around to visiting this forum while I am gone, so from the 21st until the 26th, just figure you won't see me here. If I do show up here during that interval, consider it a bonus.

I'm trying to live in the moment, but I have to say I dread the trip (even while looking forward to it).
 
5:50 p.m., Wednesday the 19th

So it looks as if my trip to Utah has been canceled, or at least put off until around Labor Day. You see, I was going to stay at my older brother's house (mayhaps Derek would be a good nickname?), but it looks like he and his wife and stepkids have come down with Covid-19. So, he is calling the airline (Delta) to see if my flight can be changed to a different date (to the end of August). So I guess I can postpone my trip anxieties for another month or so at least.
 
12:32 p.m., Thursday the 20th

Right -- so now my trip plans have been switched back to how they were originally. So starting tomorrow (and ending on the 26th), my visits on this forum will be sporadic if/when I show up at all. I guess Derek was unable to get my flights changed, and plus he no longer thinks his household has Covid, instead it apparently is just a flu.

Yeah, I'm getting whiplash, my anxiety levels have spiked. I suppose I'll still be going on a Timp hike. Derek is unlikely to cancel that part of the plans when lots of people are depending on it. But we'll see, things can obviously change at the drop of a hat.
 
5:27 p.m., Wednesday the 26th

Wow, that Timp hike proved to be quite an adventure. The closer I got to the top, the more I wanted to get to the top, as I got more and more exhausted. It didn't occur to me that if I got up there too late, I was going to lose daylight on the way down. It didn't occur to me because I wasn't in my right mind. What with the altitude, exhaustion, and I was badly dehydrated. (Missed the last spring on the way up.) So I summitted at 5:00 p.m., and things were so bad by then that for every 25 yards I hiked, I had to sit down for a considerable rest. My brother (Derek) observed this during my descent, he was waiting for me in the High Meadows and he could see me once I crossed the Saddle. He could see me struggling and long story short, search and rescue was called. They met up with us in the Middle Meadows and by then, I was quite beat up. My legs were rubbery and I couldn't stand up without help.

Earlier, Derek hiked up from the High Meadows to rescue me. By then I had slipped on the snow, and slid down to a ledge where I could not see the trail. Once he started yelling my way, I saw him on the trail, and with some difficulty was able to make my way down to him. He took me to that last spring, and got me a bunch of water. I tell you, water never tasted so good. But after that, he was a slave driver. He was totally freaking about the waning daylight, and wanted us to get to this or that point before it was gone. He did have a flashlight, but it was going to be Hell trying to get down. Well actually it was Hell. At one point my legs got so rubbery that I just collapsed. And even after Derek helped me stand again, I just immediately collapsed again. I couldn't get my legs to work. He was freaking so bad, it was a terrifying moment. Finally I was able to stay standing -- barely -- and we continued our descent.

I felt funny about accepting help from search and rescue, but once they met up with us, man were they a godsend. I've never had so much attention lavished on me. They were all standing around me (while I sat on a rock), asking me questions about how I was doing, and running various tests on me. They removed my shirt, and replaced it with a sweatshirt. Then they accompanied us the rest of the way down, and whenever I had to step down a rocky step, one or two of them would take my arm/s or hand/s and assist me. And they were totally cool about it all, they were super nice. They gave me (and Derek) lots of words of encouragement.

They would have carried me down in a stretcher, but luckily the assistance they gave was enough. So we made it to the bottom in one piece. I just had a massive cut on my left hand (from falling down), and the skin torn off my elbows (from sliding down the snow). And my arms were badly sunburned, that's the biggest problem I'm having at the moment. I can't even rest them on my computer desk without it hurting. But the important thing is that we got down, safely, and the minor injuries will heal in due time. My legs still hurt, and I am moving around like a cripple, but they're not so rubbery like they were before.

All in all, that hike was the hardest thing I've ever done. Ever. I was totally out of shape for it, a hike of 15 miles round trip, summitting at 11750 feet above sea level. I was really glad to make the summit this one last time -- but I wouldn't want to do it again. My days of summitting on Timp are over.

I'd tell you more details, but I want to get this entry posted before dinner. I guess we are having takeout from a really good Thai place. I'll take it.
 
Wow, that was quite the hike! I'm glad that you made it down safely, with the assistance of the search and rescue team. Was there still daylight by the time the descent was complete?
 
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