Penny
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I dig. Good word and post (no joke)
But here is one : I suggest a new word - Orgamism, for people who object the practice of self indulgence. Either Orgamism or Orgasmism
Would that make me an Orgasmaphile?
I dig. Good word and post (no joke)
But here is one : I suggest a new word - Orgamism, for people who object the practice of self indulgence. Either Orgamism or Orgasmism
But here is one : I suggest a new word - Orgamism, for people who object the practice of self indulgence. Either Orgamism or Orgasmism
Would that make me an Orgasmaphile?
You know, there is another thing I don't get about monogamism ... from what I understand about American calture, during college and High School, people "go out" "not exclusive" with each other... in other words, its perfectly fine then to "bang" with a few people in the same time and its totally OK (and of course be in an emotional connection too with all of them, at least I hope... I'm using the word bang just to be funny again) anyway... so in college its totally OK but then once you are out of college ... game over, it becomes borderline illegal.
What's the story with that?
According to you, nobody should say that "Racism is wrong" because he might be offending someone.
I'm young, enthusiastic and maybe provocative but I truly did not mean to offend anybody. If I did offend anyone, I apologize.
Happy Women's Day to all you girls out there
Love it Charlie, totally beautiful story!I am a big fan of being polite; I find that it is hard to disregard a polite person.
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In the last few months I have made two incredible new friends, a married, monogamous gay couple, who adopted two kids a few years ago. The adoption was the first of its kind in their home state, requiring much legal hoop jumping and many lawyers, and was furthermore financed in part by the Catholic Church. The stipulation from the Church was that they could not go to the media. They agreed. Even wrote a nice thank you letter to the Pope, who did not respond.
Quite revolutionary. Quiet revolutionary. No big press conference, but who cares? There are now two beautiful children being raised up in a solid, loving, respectful, educated family. A more tolerant family. A 21st century family.
The revolution is already happening, one healthy relationship at a time.
But it will take time.
Quality takes time.
That ironically-was my point. I know you have on a number of occasions brought up the need to step in and work on these issues. There is a LOT of us who agree with that here I think. Just a matter of all of us being respectful and understanding enough of each other to manage to make some plans and then execute them. First, we gotta accept one another's differences and then try to understand each others perspectives so that we can each do the steps that we're able, which in turn will together accomplish the work.I like D's fire. I feel some of that myself, and I'm glad to have well reasoned water for my fire around, as in the case of Charlie's cooling comments. We need a fire, but not too hot a fire -- nor too swift. But not too slow, either. These discussions help us regulate the temperature.
That word is generally used for younger females in the U.S. though I don't know about other places. But, the bigger issue is that it's often used in a negative manner to suggest that women are "lesser" than men in society (kind of like nigger or faggot). So, a lot of women get defensive about it, ESPECIALLY if they are at all involved in the revolution of feminism.I'm sorry, I don't get it. I didn't want to write "happay women's day to all women" because it doesn't sound right, so I used "girls".
girls = nigger? Wow... is there a list of not PC words that I should read?
.. there is no true relationship structure. There are just relationships, what you make of them that makes you happy is your business...
You know, there is another thing I don't get about monogamism ... from what I understand about American calture, during college and High School, people "go out" "not exclusive" with each other... in other words, its perfectly fine then to "bang" with a few people in the same time and its totally OK (and of course be in an emotional connection too with all of them, at least I hope... I'm using the word bang just to be funny again) anyway... so in college its totally OK but then once you are out of college ... game over, it becomes borderline illegal.
What's the story with that?