Valynn
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Been with Dexus for the past week in Flushing on a mini vacation from the chaos at my house. We stayed overnight at Mom's for Christmas & it was a regular shitshow covered in Christmas frosting to make it seem nice.
1. Elaine's eldest son, Nephew 1, refused to come down to open presents. He said that Dexus was too intimidating and it was making him have a panic attack. And Elaine began to bitch at Dexus to stop being himself. Dexus is 6'2" and 210lbs, compared to Nephew 1 at 15 being 5'3" & 90lbs soaking wet. This almost incurred a fight between Elaine & I. The only reason it did not was by the grace of my 2 nieces, Hanna & Amanda. Hanna sent me next door with Christmas cookies & Amanda took Dexus into her room to talk geeky stuff.
2. Because presents were not opened until almost 3pm. Dinner was delayed as well. Making Elaine's estranged husband, I love calling him 'Ex-in-law' cause I never liked him or how he treated my sister & kids, annoyied. We didn't sit down to eat dinner until 8pm. Both Dexus & I were just about done playing nice for my Mom.
Since then Dexus & I returned to his father's place and it has been quiet.
I will be seeing JR three times this week. We haven't had a day together because of the holidays. Maybe next year will be different. We shall see. I went into 2019 with an open heart & a determined spirit. I will do the same with 2020.
1. Elaine's eldest son, Nephew 1, refused to come down to open presents. He said that Dexus was too intimidating and it was making him have a panic attack. And Elaine began to bitch at Dexus to stop being himself. Dexus is 6'2" and 210lbs, compared to Nephew 1 at 15 being 5'3" & 90lbs soaking wet. This almost incurred a fight between Elaine & I. The only reason it did not was by the grace of my 2 nieces, Hanna & Amanda. Hanna sent me next door with Christmas cookies & Amanda took Dexus into her room to talk geeky stuff.
2. Because presents were not opened until almost 3pm. Dinner was delayed as well. Making Elaine's estranged husband, I love calling him 'Ex-in-law' cause I never liked him or how he treated my sister & kids, annoyied. We didn't sit down to eat dinner until 8pm. Both Dexus & I were just about done playing nice for my Mom.
Since then Dexus & I returned to his father's place and it has been quiet.
I will be seeing JR three times this week. We haven't had a day together because of the holidays. Maybe next year will be different. We shall see. I went into 2019 with an open heart & a determined spirit. I will do the same with 2020.
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